What do you think about the first year of marriage...easy, hard, frusturating, fun, maybe all of the above? I have been married for almost a year...we were together for several years prior to marriage, and while we love each other dearly, I sometimes feel like I could kill my husband. I'm sure this is normal but uggggg he can be soooooo frusturating. Friends of ours that have been married for about the same amount of time, always seem so happy go lucky, of course I don't know what goes on behind closed doors. I'm just looking for a little feed back....is it ok/normal for "newlyweds" not to be picture perfect all the time?