Joined: 12 Sep 2003 Posts: 20 Location: contra costa
Want to Get Pregnant Posted: 09-14-03 17:07pm
Hi my name is mary i'm 18 living with my
man. I want to know if anybody can help
what is a good way to get pregnant. I
really need to know i'm scared .What if I
cant have kids? I have been trying for 9
months
Hi mary,
to answer your question I can't really but
I have always heard not to try so hard and
not to worry about it and when you least
expect it it will happen. I know how you
feel though I was married for 3years and
never got pregnant and didn't think I
could get pregnant I got married again and
after about a year and half I got
pregnant but in my 4 month I had a
miscarriage which was very hurt ful and
upsetting. Well I was so desperate for a
baby of my own I tryed again 4 months
later I was pregnant again well in the 5
month I had another miscarriage and I lost
alot of blood almost died I had a
transfusion and my body hasn't been right
since, so I haven't really tried anymore
to get pregnant because of this I am
scared I will have another miscarriage or
I will lose to much blood trying to have a
baby I may die. So I can emphithise so
much with your fears of not being able to
have a baby. Maybe you should go see your
gynocologist and get a pap and make sure
he doesn't se any problems. I hope
everything works out for you keep me
informed. Michelle
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AngelaZ
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2004 Posts: 25 Location: phx
Hi Mary!! Posted: 01-03-04 14:48pm
Good luck! I am 17 turning 18, living
with my soon to be husband. We have not
been trying long I just recently took off
the patch. I now have to wait till i'm
off of my period. Not only that but my
mother has been diagnosed with polysystic
ovaries. I have read so many of these "i
want a baby" forums and all of them talk
of it taking years and months. I'm so
distraught. I thought I would have better
luck at a young age, but who knows. All
my friends say that my husband and I just
have to be like rabbits, keep tying. I
wish you the best of luck.
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ladav
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 19 Location: WI
Reply Posted: 01-07-04 13:12pm
I personally think that you should wait a
while to have a baby. You have so much
ahead of you. Babys are a big
responsibilty. When I was 18 I too
wanted a baby. I am so happy I waited
though. Good luck!!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-07-04 13:32pm
Like posted before...Try having sex
everyday...Even on your period...If this
doesn't work, you will have to look
further.