He's speaking as one who knows -- women are usually much better off without the sob who's giving them grief. Basically, if he's cheating, violent, unreliable, abusive, useless, etc., you're better off without him!
The heading says it all, this being is offensive, abusive & could easily (may already have) cause emotional trauma/damage to someone seeking help/advice/support, as all he ever does is be offensive, generally without having (certainly without indicating) any practical knowledge, experience or concern for the person who has posted or who might come into the forum seeking help.
I totally agree with purple. Gordon has no business here all he seems to be doing here is making insult after insult. People come here for help and support gordon cannot pervide that he has shown that already. All he does is rip woman apart and takes pride in doing so. He should be gone from here..There is no problem comming here and voicing your opinions but you when you constantely (sp) are making rude and nasty remarks at people with every post its time to leave.. Let him be gone
Im not even brokenhearted, just browsing. But gordan ive noticed that in every post u make, you are completely rude an un-commpassionate. If these people are broken hearted.. They are upset.. Depressed etc. Everyone goes throough these feelings and need to talk about them. Let them! If u dont like it, dont reply!
I agree that there comes a point when you do have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and say--- 'buck up little soldier, the world is large and i'm gonna find my piece of lovin' but first, there is the natural process of denial, depression, heartbrokenness and dispair, self-betterment, new hair cut and color, a sexy new pair of shoes, and finally revenge. A lot of people here are just in the first stages of the process. The stupid ones stay in the first stages far far too long, though.
L was in terrible situation l dated this guy for like two months but he never even mentioned that he is married, but l had a feelin about it and l askd him he refused. After that this gal told me but l thought she was jelous and later on l found out that he was chasin this gal and the gal called me, she told me he was after her and he is married and the wife is expecting a baby. L asked him he said its true he was goin to tell and they want to devorce but from that day he never called or even sms or to come and see me. L was hurt really even now.
But its goin away bit by bit but when l think about it it really eats me and l cry smetimes coz l feel used really wat should l do? L feel that l should revenge smetimes l feel l should let go do we have to let them get away with it?
His wife probably knows already,just does not want to face it.I knew my ex was cheating,but did not want to face it.When I was told the truth,i kinda lost it for a few years until my self-esteem "healed".It's not easy to learn ugly things about someone you love,but in the long run it is better than being duped for many more years.You could tell his wife,but she may not believe you.I have seen that happen also.He will probably deny the affair and do his best to make you look like the a**hole.Let him be,he'll eventually get caught-they always do!Better luck next time!Patty
You are right patty she probably would not believe her, but him and he would try to make her look like an ass, but so what? She has a right to hear it anyway.
Yes, a lot of the time women do know and just let it happen, but maybe she honestly doesn't know? I know I would want to be told, but then again I do not tolerate cheating at all.
I don't care how long I have been with someone, whether we are married/have kids or whatever, cheating is it. That is the end. That is one thing that cannot be "worked out" with me. You knew what you were doing before and when you were doing it, so to freakin bad. I do not cheat and would not cheat, so I expect the same from my man.
But, anyway, point being it is really up to you what you do. Just put yourself in his wife's shoes and figure out whether you would want to be told or not, and then decide if it is worth it to you. But, if I were her, I would want to know.
Just my opinion.