Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Plymouth UK, UK
Posted: 03-07-08 15:19pm
Thats good to hear mashie. I hope it works
out for you. My X always said you never
stay with ur 1st, i didnt belive him and
think it makes no difference but can be
hard if the other has slept with several
ppl. Hed had 26 women! So was very hard
for me. We split only last year as he
cheated for the 4th or 5th time!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-07-08 15:37pm
My first had been with several women and
it didn't bother me at all. I personally
think it's good if one of the partners
knows what they're doing.
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kschmi24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Feb 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Denver,
Posted: 03-08-08 14:54pm
my first time i was (very) drunk at a bar
and met a guy and had sex in his truck for
about 15 minutes. it probably would have
been more painful if i wasn't drunk. i
don't regret it, i was ready to have sex
and while it would have been better if it
was with a boyfriend or friend, i'm cool
with it. the awkward part was that i
lived with my co-workers and supervisor
and while we had sex in his truck, my
supervisor was standing outside about 30
feet away-not watching but making sure I
was ok. Hahaha, it was hard to work
around him for awhile.
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lele25
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Dec 2007 Posts: 519 Location: Southland, USA
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Posted: 03-08-08 22:57pm
Eiri
wrote:
My first had been with
several women and it didn't bother me at
all. I personally think it's good if one
of the partners knows what they're
doing.
Completely agree...I think that my first
time would have been much better if he had
been with other women, and it would not
bother me in the least, provided that we
were both well protected.
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orthogirl86
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 May 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 06-14-08 21:27pm
well, it depends on the people and the
relationship/feelings whether or not its a
special experience or not. i'm 21 and i
waited until i was going on 19 to have
sex. i don't understand highschool kids
having sex. highschool is already
stressful enough, and then u add on a
sexual relationship? idk. plus, statistics
say that depression amongst teens is more
prevalant in teens that are sexually
active opposed to teens that are
abstainant. sexual relationships at a
young age = drama.
when i started at 19.. no, it was nothing
'' special ''. i've always been a sexual
person and experimented with porn, toys,
ect before i got into sex.. so i was very
knowledgeable. my first time was AMAZING.
not '' special '' but, sexually.. it was
good because i educated myself and
experiemented with myself first and
foremost. if you don't have the urge to
have sex and u just wanna do it to get it
over with or to fit in, it's not gonna be
good for you. btw, not to toot my own horn
but, i'm an attractive intelligent young
lady, i model and was very popular in
school.. and i didn't have to have sex to
get attention. there is nothing wrong with
being a virgin.
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preggie meggie
Supporter
Joined: 29 Sep 2007 Posts: 283 Location: Farmer City, Illinois U.S.
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Posted: 06-15-08 11:55am
I lost mine at age 12 and he was 13. He
was my first and I was his. Now im
pregnant with his baby, but we arent
together anymore. It was not what the
movies make it to be
(exciting,WOW,spectacular...ect.) but it
was special.
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flipper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Mar 2006 Posts: 134 Location: Texas
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Posted: 06-15-08 17:05pm
My first time was about four months after
I turned 16. I was a virgin, and he
wasn't, though he wasn't uber experienced.
It was nice, but it wasn't magic. lol.
We stayed together, and I remember not
being sure how I really felt about sex at
the time. We still did it, gah, almost
everyday. A few months later, we were
alone in my house for a few hours at
night, and let me tell you, THAT was
magic. It was like we suddenly and
finally clicked. It's been over 10 years
and we're still together.
