Are you planning on getting a DNA test taken after the baby is born?

Maybe they don't want to get attached to a baby that may or may not be theirs?

How did you get that way?

Because boys are stupid.

You really need to get a DNA test when that baby is born and make the daddy own up to his responsibilities.

Because boys are stupid.

You really need to get a DNA test when that baby is born and make the daddy own up to his responsibilities.

Is it more than likely one of the two men than the other?

It is more likely that it is the first guy that I was withs cause I did not sleep with the other one right away.. And that is what the ultrasound person said.. that it pretty much added up to be the first guy I was withs...and if anyone is wondering.. my boyfriend and I broke up.. cause.. he lied about me.. to a girl saying...........wuz up u sexy biotch long time no see how u been baby i've been okay i guess well my girl just broke my heart she cheeted on me and got prego from anatha person iv'e never been cheated on b4 man that caca hurts well i hope 2 hear from u baby maybe we can get up and do sumpthin i'm stayin with chris and joey right now so holla at a sexy person u know u want 2

p.s.ha i cought u thinkin bout my penis u were werent u

p.p.s.let a person get them didgets

luv,
tha sexercist


........and I was pregnant before him and I got back together.....

I agree with michelle...
I'm very sorry for your situation... that must be tough...
but I can imagine it also being tough on these two guys, whether or not they would own up , (which one of them should once the paternity is determined)... it might be hard for them to own up to something they are unsure of or uneasy about ... give the situation time and once everything ius order Im sure it will all work out!

I know.. one of them said they would pay for the test.. so now I play a waiting game.. but thank you..

Try not to think too much about being single, its not that bad especially when your family is there for you do you want to get back with one of the guys at some point?

SINGLE MUMS RULE lol
ok every now and then you really need to get out and about and talk to an adult for some civilized convo but to be honest i wasnt single by choice or anyone elses choice. those iraqi army w*nkers took him away from me.

but even at that.
if there soo imature to think they can do without them.
then you cant do with negitive people like that in a kids life.

just keep in mind though they might just want some proof. they cood be Sh*t scared.

How did you get pregnant? Were you trying to time sex with when you ovulated? Didn't the guys you were with realize that they may very well get you pregnant by having sex with you? They weren't wearing condoms or anything, right?

With the first guy I was with.. He and I were trying.. with the other one.. he thought he wasn't fertile.. cause.. he tried and tried to get a girl pregnant... or a few of them.. and it did not work...

you know...i dont feel sorry for you one bit..old enough to have sex then you are old enough to handle the consequences...get a paternity test done on both and move on with your life.

this is one reason why you dont sleep with more then one person a month!

I did not ask you to feel sorry for me. I already plan on getting a test done.. One of the guys. .the last time I talked to him.. was going to pay for it.. I was just saying I was lonely.. Pretty much I wanted someone to talk to

We all make mistakes, she obviously didnt plan to get pregnant and not know who the father was. It happens to a lot of girls, having one night stands with guys they meet on the weekends at clubs. At least she knows which 2 guys it could be, it wasnt guys she only knew the first name of for one night.

You won't need to worry about which one is paying for it. What happens is the state (since you are young and I'm going to assume you'll use support enforcement because that is the easiest route to take) will take over your case. The person who is the biological father will be the one who ends up paying for the testing. You won't have to figure all that out on your own.

The thing is... It was not all at one time in the month.. I mean.. it was weeks in between... God.. ya'll amke me feel like a prostitute.. and I Am not one.....

I doubt that was anyone's intention here. It is mostly concern for the hardships you and that child will face with an unknown father. Yes, it is true, you can do it on your own - but that isn't ever easy.