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Q: Husband not taking responsibility
asked by: Hart74 on February 18th, 2008
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I am so stress and depressed even though some might think that I happy and 'rich' deep down only GOD know how it feels. Today my son cam e back home and told me that the things that was meant for the teachers was taken away by the class bully (I posted the article on parenting forum) then when I told my husband about it he told me that tomorrow he have to work (it's his day off) he asked me to deal with it again. I'm sick and tired that he always shift his part of responsiblities on me he got no respect for me and always verbal abused me! I am sick and tired of all these he always give me excuse that he need to work and feed all of us. Tell me what should I do? It's due to him that my son is so timid and let everyone bully him.
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mominashoe
replied on February 18th, 2008
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Oh Hart, you are just such a sweet woman and you definitely of all people don't deserve this! I did post about your son, but I am wondering if maybe you should stop being so sweet for a bit if you can and start taking your husband to task!

Your son needs you, but more than that he needs a good father-figure as his role model and your husband's running away from the situation is not helping. Yes, he needs to make money, but more important than anything, he needs to be a good father before anything else. It is better to be a poor but happy and well-formed family than it is to be sad, dysfunctional and rich.

Boy, if I was there I would give your husband a piece of my mind for treating you this way!
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Hart74
replied on February 18th, 2008
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Thanks mominashoe, I just don't understand that sometime today he called the discipline master to complain about what happened yesterday I guess he's trying to get back to being slightly nice, he always do that when he know that I am upset with him. Thanks again for the advise I will hold it to my heart.
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