Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 532 Location: Woodlands (not like there are woods anywhere near) Garden City ,
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Husband not taking responsibility Posted: 02-18-08 06:33am
I am so stress and depressed even though
some might think that I happy and 'rich'
deep down only GOD know how it feels.
Today my son cam e back home and told me
that the things that was meant for the
teachers was taken away by the class bully
(I posted the article on parenting forum)
then when I told my husband about it he
told me that tomorrow he have to work
(it's his day off) he asked me to deal
with it again. I'm sick and tired that he
always shift his part of responsiblities
on me he got no respect for me and always
verbal abused me! I am sick and tired of
all these he always give me excuse that he
need to work and feed all of us. Tell me
what should I do? It's due to him that my
son is so timid and let everyone bully
him.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-18-08 16:22pm
Oh Hart, you are just such a sweet woman
and you definitely of all people don't
deserve this! I did post about your son,
but I am wondering if maybe you should
stop being so sweet for a bit if you can
and start taking your husband to task!
Your son needs you, but more than that he
needs a good father-figure as his role
model and your husband's running away from
the situation is not helping. Yes, he
needs to make money, but more important
than anything, he needs to be a good
father before anything else. It is better
to be a poor but happy and well-formed
family than it is to be sad, dysfunctional
and rich.
Boy, if I was there I would give your
husband a piece of my mind for treating
you this way!
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Hart74
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Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 532 Location: Woodlands (not like there are woods anywhere near) Garden City ,
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Posted: 02-18-08 21:42pm
Thanks mominashoe, I just don't understand
that sometime today he called the
discipline master to complain about what
happened yesterday I guess he's trying to
get back to being slightly nice, he always
do that when he know that I am upset with
him. Thanks again for the advise I will
hold it to my heart.
