Seeing you have been married for 17 months since this original post, I think you know how to make love...However, I would like to suggest one of the most erotic and tastefully illustrated (as well as hot) books that has ever been put out...Left it out for my husband one morning as he was just a bit off in stimulating my clitoris during oral sex...Left it at his coffee pot...Seeing he wakes me up in the morning he proved to me that he read it...
The name of the book is "Satisfaction"....Written by Kim Cattrall and Mark Levinson...At the time he was her partner or husband, I am not sure....She was on Oprah about three years ago and I saw her interview....I was impressed...So is the book....It is not only hot, but it is informative...As much as I know and knew, I now know more....
Good luck and have the time of your life....I sure have....So has he..

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Caroline