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Jealousy of online porn normal ? Posted: 02-16-08 20:46pm
to be jealous of my husband looking at
pictures of other naked women online? or
should i stop being so mean? Oo i'm
confused.... if masturbation is so normal
i should be able to not be jealous of him
masturbating alone right?
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Lion79
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Posted: 02-17-08 06:35am
as long as he's still interested in you, I
don't think it's a problem. Everyone has
an opinion on it though, but look at it
this way-he's never gonna meet the people
he watches in porn. It's just a fantasy,
and it's not necessarily that he wants to
have sex with that woman in the video,
it's just seeing it happen. Maybe you
could try watching porn together. You
might like it, and you'll be handy for him
for when he gets turned on hehe.
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Little Miss Oops
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Re: is it normal? Posted: 02-18-08 13:51pm
MyLove4U
wrote:
to be jealous of my husband
looking at pictures of other naked women
online? or should i stop being so mean? Oo
i'm confused.... if masturbation is so
normal i should be able to not be jealous
of him masturbating alone
right?
lol my boyfriend watches porn all the time
ive watched it with him once but you
shouldn't worry about it really, i watched
it to make fun of them lol and sometimes i
don't want sex (this never happens, for
chris is to satisfying for me to stay away
lol) but like when i'm on my period i will
not have sex at all so i tell him do what
you gotta do lol doesn't bother me at all
lol
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MyLove4U
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Re: is it normal? Posted: 02-18-08 14:05pm
cassie K
wrote:
MyLove4U
wrote:
to be jealous of my husband
looking at pictures of other naked women
online? or should i stop being so mean? Oo
i'm confused.... if masturbation is so
normal i should be able to not be jealous
of him masturbating alone
right?
lol my boyfriend watches porn all the time
ive watched it with him once but you
shouldn't worry about it really, i watched
it to make fun of them lol and sometimes i
don't want sex (this never happens, for
chris is to satisfying for me to stay away
lol) but like when i'm on my period i will
not have sex at all so i tell him do what
you gotta do lol doesn't bother me at all
lol
lol yeah i do watch it with him some
times. it's not that bad and yeah i make
fun of them too. just can't help it. yeah
i usually do the same thing. but my period
came on v-day this year. i believe it was
the only time i ever had sex with having
my period. too messy. yuck! :p lol thanks
for the help.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 02-18-08 14:13pm
lol no problem any time.. my bf chris was
like "we can just put a towel underneath
us or in the shower lol" and i was like no
no and oh no. it's just gross to me lol
and ive never done it in the shower so i
dunno how that would work lol. Aunt Flow
is visiting me right now and yesterday
chris was like "this is a good thing,
atleast we know your not pregnant" and
then i said for you yea (i was talkin bout
the pain and blood lol) he said "for both
of us" and i said "here you can deal with
all the pain cramping and blood and we'll
see if its a good thing lol" and he said
"eeeeewwwww i'm sorry baby"
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MyLove4U
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Joined: 16 Feb 2008 Posts: 47 Location: Rimini, Italy
Posted: 02-18-08 14:44pm
cassie K
wrote:
lol no problem any time.. my
bf chris was like "we can just put a towel
underneath us or in the shower lol" and i
was like no no and oh no. it's just gross
to me lol and ive never done it in the
shower so i dunno how that would work lol.
Aunt Flow is visiting me right now and
yesterday chris was like "this is a good
thing, atleast we know your not pregnant"
and then i said for you yea (i was talkin
bout the pain and blood lol) he said "for
both of us" and i said "here you can deal
with all the pain cramping and blood and
we'll see if its a good thing lol" and he
said "eeeeewwwww i'm sorry
baby"
LMAO!! that's great. i'm sure men couldn't
handle it even if they wanted to try. i
mean we grew up with it almost. so we're
some what use to it. i mean if i girl just
got the worst feeling in her life one
second, i know i would think i was dying.
lol but yeah i just finished mine. oh and
the whole towel though (my mom told me to
do so for my honeymoon, since i got mine
the first night) it wouldn't work for me.
XD my mother-in-law does all the laundry.
i could just imagine what would go through
her mind! lol
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lele25
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Posted: 02-18-08 17:14pm
My husband looks at porn and I could
really care less, as long as its legal. He
also has a subscription to Playboy, and
I'm not jealous because I think its a
natural thing for men to do......now if he
started flirting with my friends...there'd
be hell to pay!
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Galaxy
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Posted: 02-18-08 17:41pm
I feel a little out of step here but I do
not think I could be attracted to a man
who watches a lot of porn. I prefer men
who like books, and music, and live gigs,
and mainstream or arthouse cinema, and
even a bit of theatre, but porn? - nah,
not for me. I could not imagine having
much to talk about to a guy who spent his
time doing that. Am I in a minority here?
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Lion79
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Posted: 02-18-08 18:40pm
If it were excessive porn and he went
about broadcasting it all over the place
then no I wouldn't be attracted to them
either. For example, if some guy listed
'porn' under interests on his myspace or
something, I'd steer clear lol I think
it's normal to watch porn and that goes
for anybody but it's best to keep it a
private activity really.
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lele25
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Posted: 02-18-08 19:35pm
shonster
wrote:
I feel a little out of step
here but I do not think I could be
attracted to a man who watches a lot of
porn. I prefer men who like books, and
music, and live gigs, and mainstream or
arthouse cinema, and even a bit of
theatre, but porn? - nah, not for me. I
could not imagine having much to talk
about to a guy who spent his time doing
that. Am I in a minority
here?
I completely agree.....my husband does not
consider porn an interest of his, just
something he looks at on occasion....he
swears he reads playboy for the
articles...tehehe...anyways, its not a
hobby or anything. Yes I would be upset if
that was all he's into but like you
mentioned above...he reads a good deal and
we also sail and travel alot.
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MyLove4U
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2008 Posts: 47 Location: Rimini, Italy
Posted: 02-19-08 07:16am
thanks everyone. lol this does make me
feel better. but since it comes down to
the fact that my husband is a computer
programmer he spends almost all his time
on the computer. when i first stated
living with him i noticed that a lot of
the tabs open on firefox were naked women.
it's not even videos, just picture. but
he's really slowed all that down. oh well,
i told him he could still and just tells
me he doesn't have too. but thank you all.
^^ lots of help from everyone. and yes if
that was his only interest i wouldn't be
with him. thanks again.
