Womens Chat Forum - really dry vagina during sex

Hart74

replied on February 17th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

The most safest lubricant that I know of is the saliva, how old are you?

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MyLove4U

replied on February 17th, 2008

New User

Hart74 wrote:

The most safest lubricant that I know of is the saliva, how old are you?

i'm 18. i think i've seen that in a few online shops but i don't really have the means of buying things like that online. besides most of the ones i know only deliver to the US or Canada.

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The Mrs

replied on February 17th, 2008

Experienced User

I think she was referring to saliva produced in the mouth.

I'm sorry to hear you've been having painful sex. I've heard of someone who is allergic to latex to feel like she has "little cuts" all over her vagina, but I bet in your case you simply just aren't producing enough lubrication.

I'd suggest trying saliva, as Hart74 suggested. It may sounds gross, but atleast it wont sting.

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The Mrs

replied on February 17th, 2008

Experienced User

Also, you may want to refrain from sex for a while and try and let your body heel or it may never get better.

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MyLove4U

replied on February 17th, 2008

New User

The Mrs wrote:

Also, you may want to refrain from sex for a while and try and let your body heel or it may never get better.

ah lol sorry i have been having a bad headache today. i already use all the saliva i can. it's not bad but it still hurts a lot. i live with a man. any person that knows how much men like to have sex knows that it's not always possible to just stop and heal. but he does understand and i tell him no a lot. so we tend not to have a lot of sex.

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Little Miss Oops

replied on February 18th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

i have the same problem so we just use lubrication constantly, i don't mind it at all, and i live with my bf and he likes to have sex all the time. doesn't bother me so i tell him no lube no sex so we keep a bottle around lol. i've excepted the fact that i can't "produce" my own lubrication like men can so i'm not worried about it lol

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MyLove4U

replied on February 18th, 2008

New User

cassie K wrote:

i have the same problem so we just use lubrication constantly, i don't mind it at all, and i live with my bf and he likes to have sex all the time. doesn't bother me so i tell him no lube no sex so we keep a bottle around lol. i've excepted the fact that i can't "produce" my own lubrication like men can so i'm not worried about it lol

i would do the same but i haven't found a lube that doesn't sting! >.< no more fresh lube. they hurt. but i'll keep this in mind. on to the trip to the sex shop! lol thanks again

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Little Miss Oops

replied on February 18th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

lol yep. chris and i use KY lube but we get it from walmart (hehe i work there and he has to go in there to buy condoms and lube and everyone at work knows hes my bf lol he gets so embarrest ) i love it!!!!

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MyLove4U

replied on February 18th, 2008

New User

cassie K wrote:

lol yep. chris and i use KY lube but we get it from walmart (hehe i work there and he has to go in there to buy condoms and lube and everyone at work knows hes my bf lol he gets so embarrest ) i love it!!!!

haha oh my. no we can get it from a few places but i always feel like people judge you for it. i'm only 18, but what most people don't know is i'm married! lol it doesn't really matter since me and my husband had sex before we got married. but anyways they don't sell KY out here. mostly it's durex breand. :p i don't really like it. at lest when i go in to a sex shop i know all the people are there for pretty much the same reason. but i've only been in one once. very expensive! lol

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LovelyLeigh

replied on February 20th, 2008

Experienced User

i kind of have the same problem...but its just in the beginning of the sex.
thats when it stings..but once he is in its all good...until we break and restart..
but yea if you honestly find a way for it to stop hurting..
please let me know!

and ill look stuff up too..to help you too

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MyLove4U

replied on February 21st, 2008

New User

LovelyLeigh wrote:

i kind of have the same problem...but its just in the beginning of the sex.
thats when it stings..but once he is in its all good...until we break and restart..
but yea if you honestly find a way for it to stop hurting..
please let me know!

and ill look stuff up too..to help you too

thank you. and i'll try to find things too.

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Little Miss Oops

replied on February 22nd, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

MyLove4U wrote:

cassie K wrote:

lol yep. chris and i use KY lube but we get it from walmart (hehe i work there and he has to go in there to buy condoms and lube and everyone at work knows hes my bf lol he gets so embarrest ) i love it!!!!

haha oh my. no we can get it from a few places but i always feel like people judge you for it. i'm only 18, but what most people don't know is i'm married! lol it doesn't really matter since me and my husband had sex before we got married. but anyways they don't sell KY out here. mostly it's durex breand. :p i don't really like it. at lest when i go in to a sex shop i know all the people are there for pretty much the same reason. but i've only been in one once. very expensive! lol

lol i'm 17 i don't care what ppl think we are all different and atleast him buying condom's is a way of protection lol. definatly expensive lol

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MyLove4U

replied on February 22nd, 2008

New User

haha yeah people always tell me that it's like that but i'm shy :blush: lol and yes it is good but just last night i completely figured it out. i'm allergic to latex. no condom no hurting! lol guess i need to go find latex free condoms now.

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Little Miss Oops

replied on February 22nd, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

lol good for you!!!!

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LadyAllie

replied on March 31st, 2008

Experienced User

MyLove4U wrote:

haha oh my. no we can get it from a few places but i always feel like people judge you for it. i'm only 18,

i know what you mean! im only 17, and me and my bf of almost a year have had sex.
im on bc, and he hates condoms, so he doesnt want to use them, but we want to get spermacide before that happens... just in case.
im too embarrased to walk into a store and buy it! we get our condoms and lube from his doctor and sometimes his dad will leave him some, but we dont have any hook ups for spermacide. Confused

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MyLove4U

replied on April 2nd, 2008

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LadyAllie wrote:

MyLove4U wrote:

haha oh my. no we can get it from a few places but i always feel like people judge you for it. i'm only 18,

i know what you mean! im only 17, and me and my bf of almost a year have had sex.
im on bc, and he hates condoms, so he doesnt want to use them, but we want to get spermacide before that happens... just in case.
im too embarrased to walk into a store and buy it! we get our condoms and lube from his doctor and sometimes his dad will leave him some, but we dont have any hook ups for spermacide. Confused

oh my

yeah the first time i had to go buy condoms with my husband i couldn't even look the cashier in the face. XD but whatever even now i still can't and normally my husband will stop on his way home from work and get them. lol Smile

good luck with finding some spermacide. think i might look in to that too Oo sounds good.

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iluhvjesse

replied on July 22nd, 2009

New User

dry.

Get unscented lube! i'm like that too because i'm sensitive in that area.

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