|I've scratched at my meager brain and came up come up with a situation where it might be considered a little wee bit "right":
Husband has terminal cancer...you see where I'm going...
|When You Have A Wife who totally loves you, knows that you are unfaithful but still wants to make it work out with you, you ask him to come back and he does. He gets you pregnant. Who here is the person who made this pregnancy happen? Is it the wife who thought maybe if she could give him a son which he said he wanted more than anything? Or, the wife who thought this was her last chance for him to stay?
The man said it was just sex. Do men really think like that when they have a wife who loves them? Tried to tell him about the 27% failure rate of pull out. Says he can't believe it is his child. Honestly. We are talking about an amazing, faithful woman here.
Either way, it didn't work out for them. They are divorced. The man still feels he deserves to be happy. She says, you are not coming close to our daughter and our son to be born.
I have asked him how this could happen (as if he doesn't know). He says he never was happy, was indebted to her family for his education, but that doesn't explain that he did go back and had relations which created a child. This is a sad story. Just won't take responsibility.
I see your point.. He is dying and "maybe not want" a baby to be a burden on her. she wants one and knows one day he will be gone. Wants the love to continue. Good point ..