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Q: Pregnant and confused considering abortion
asked by: jen2697 on February 13th, 2008
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I am 29. I have two other children by two different fathers. I just found out I am pregnant. My BF of under a year wants me to have an abortion. I am sick to my stomach thinking about an abortion. He says it is best because financially etc... Which I agree but I can't see myself having an abortion. I already work 2 jobs and barely get by. Advice please
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prettygirlygirl
replied on February 21st, 2008
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If you don't think you can go through with an abortion, don't have one.

You'll find a way to make this work. Do the other kids fathers pay child support? Will this one? Can you find another job?

If you can't have an abortion you'll just have to find a way to make it work.
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Marianne0558
replied on February 21st, 2008
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You don't have to have an abortion. You can always adopt out to someone. There are very desperate couples out there who will pay all medical expenses during pregnancy and will take very good care of this baby.
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falafal4ever81
replied on March 2nd, 2008
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i agree with marianne. my hubby and i are trying to adopt but our adoption worker has disappeared, so to be so close and to hear that someone is going to throw away a wonderful gift seems to be such a shame and is really frustrating. from your point of view, i wouldnt get an abortion because that is something you would have to live with for the rest of your life and if you arnt ok with that now, you probably wont be later either. if you can find solice with that decision then that choice is yours but if you cant then it will haunt you for the rest of your life.
best of luck
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momof2boyz
replied on January 27th, 2009
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Don't do it, do you really want to live with that everyday of your life "knowing what coulda been and shoulda been," Babies are gifts from God, plz and if you don't feel like you can raise the baby plz consider adoption, someone will love your child and give your child a chance in life. You can at least do that for your baby, he or she is already growing, it is a person that is planned to be apart of this world plz give he or she this chance. good luck and god bless..
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AyaMiyaki
replied on January 27th, 2009
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Please look at dates before responding. This was posted almost a year ago. She's already given birth or aborted.
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momof2boyz
replied on January 27th, 2009
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Sorry wasn't paying attention. So did you really feel I needed to know or are you like the controller of the forum? Does it just bug the heck out of you when people mess up or What? Have a great day,,hope you leave me the heck alone next time I respond to a thread that is a year old!LOL!!!LMAO!!!
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AyaMiyaki
replied on January 27th, 2009
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Wow, talk about an overreaction. I politely point out that you're posting to a thread that's a year old and you completely freak out. Interesting. Have fun with that.
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