Oh they are lovely children! One of my good friends had a downs baby. And let me tell you she is a doll! She is the most outgoing of her 4 kids. (she is the 3rd) I love her so much. They would have never even thought about it. God only gives you the obsticals you can handle, it may be hard but you can do it. And as they always say God chooses parents for those special children, no child is made wrong in his eyes!