Ive never seen yo to be rude, i must have missed something here... All I know is that your one hell of a strong woman and I admire you, I even posted that poem in your Carly blog or w/e its called in my myspace and my friends loved it. They think highly of you because of what your going thru and are praying for you. I dont think you need much prayers tho cuz Carly is a blessing and she is so going to make it, shes a very special gift, given to a very special, selected mother!!! You are honored to be her mother, much love to u Rachel & go Carly go, your the star here Carly, very special indeed and loved by the whole forum