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Q: fixing premature ejaculation, tried kegels and stop and go
asked by: mystery user on February 11th, 2008
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Alright... I realize i ask a lot of questions on this forum, but oh well. It is the best advice i can get. So after reading a lot of comments about premature ejaculation and other things that can be done, i STILL struggle.

I strongly hope to fix all problems without the use of anything unnatural (ex; drugs, condoms, etc.) I just want to fix my problems using only myself and tips from others. I had been using the kegals technique for a while, but the only thing that it accomplished for me was a major annoyance and the fact that i still ejaculate within seconds and now, by clenching my PC muscle, i still cum, but i manage to prevent myself from oragsming. On the other hand, i used the stop and go technique as well and that didn't help at all either. I have tried masterbating almost right before sexual encounters with my GF, but i still ejaculate quickly and a lot comes out.

Thankfully my girlfriend is really cool about it, as she doesn't consider sex as the most important part of a relationship. But i really want to know what i need to do now, especially since i will be going off to college next year and who knows what will happen.

I am in very good shape as lift a lot and i play a lot of sports, but i understand now that athletic stamina doesn't exactly transfer over to sexual stamina.

Once again, what is my next step for fixing my PE situation? Is there really a chance that the problem will just fade with maturity? Or could it even be that i just have such extreme emotions for this girl that just her touch sets me off?

please help
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MikeH90
replied on February 12th, 2008
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I tried the kegels and the stop start technique as well. Neither worked for me either. Others say that they have helped them and still others say that kegels are bad for your health. There are several types of PE and that is why there is no magic one fits all cure.

Get the book Coping with PE and figure out what type you have. Also check out the sticky note regarding this - I know that there are like 26 pages of posts but there is a lot of good info from guys on it.

good luck
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kawamackt
replied on February 13th, 2008
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Try meditation.
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mystery user
replied on February 13th, 2008
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is there anything my GF could do that might help me out?
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MikeH90
replied on February 14th, 2008
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mystery user wrote:
is there anything my GF could do that might help me out?


to be understanding and open to communication. She needs to know that you want to last longer and you're not just getting off without taking her feelings into consideration.

She can help out by going slow. Practice the stop start technique by masturbating you going slowly bringing you to the brink and then stopping. This helps both of you know how far is to far.
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sharpshooter153
replied on March 14th, 2008
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Hey guys I can totally empathise, the whole PE thing is driving me insane too. Check out my blog prematureejaculation.blog.co.uk it's a lighthearted look at the problem and solutions. Please feel free to add your comments and words of wisdom - Craig
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