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what do you think?? Posted: 02-11-08 16:47pm
I'm going to try to make this short.....As
most of you know we are ttc#2. Well it's
been over a year and I was going to make a
appointment to see the obgyn. Dh said no
wait alittle longer. I said why, he said
"well i've been meaning to tell you when
we BD i haven't been going inside. I just
blew up. when we bd we usually one goes
inside and one outside. I'm just really
upset that he didn't tell me this a long
time ago. I get my hopes up every month,
when he knows every month that it is going
to be neg. I don't know if I can really
trust him anymore. What do you ladies
think??
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moldedbymercy88
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Posted: 02-11-08 16:50pm
That's........wow. What did he have to say
for himself?
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-11-08 16:52pm
You need to sit down and talk with him
about this - does he not want to have more
children right now? Why would he tell you
one thing and do another?
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Kiara_Nicole
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Posted: 02-11-08 16:54pm
He said he would like 1 more child. He
don't think it's a big deal what he did. I
just don't know what to do or think.
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Posted: 02-11-08 16:59pm
CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
wrote:
bd??
BD = Baby Dance (have sex)
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Ingi
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Posted: 02-11-08 17:00pm
Kiara_Nicole
wrote:
He said he would like 1 more
child. He don't think it's a big deal what
he did. I just don't know what to do or
think.
Then why was he intentionally sabatoging
your efforts to get pregnant and he did it
knowing that was what he was doing.
That speaks of some underlying issues.
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number game
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Joined: 04 Jun 2007 Posts: 1212 Location: Charlotte, NC,
Posted: 02-11-08 17:43pm
Oh I really don't know what to say. But
I'm sorry this has been happening because
I know what it's like to want to be
pregnant and it NOT happen. This is wrong
of him to do and I think that you guys
need to have a serious talk about what you
both want and a time frame for the things
to happen in.
I would definately sit him down, You need
to ask him why he did this, he knows
plenty how pregnancy happens. There is a
reason he did it and he deserves to tell
you why. That just seems soooo cruel to do
to you. WOW thats just wow thats all i can
say , hopefully he talks to you and tells
you what is going on.
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sick_mama17
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Posted: 02-12-08 04:34am
I agree, you need to have a serious
conversation with him...
