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Q: what do you think??
asked by: Kiara_Nicole on February 11th, 2008
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I'm going to try to make this short.....As most of you know we are ttc#2. Well it's been over a year and I was going to make a appointment to see the obgyn. Dh said no wait alittle longer. I said why, he said "well i've been meaning to tell you when we BD i haven't been going inside. I just blew up. when we bd we usually one goes inside and one outside. I'm just really upset that he didn't tell me this a long time ago. I get my hopes up every month, when he knows every month that it is going to be neg. I don't know if I can really trust him anymore. What do you ladies think??
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moldedbymercy88
replied on February 11th, 2008
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That's........wow. What did he have to say for himself?
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Mabel
replied on February 11th, 2008
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You need to sit down and talk with him about this - does he not want to have more children right now? Why would he tell you one thing and do another?
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Kiara_Nicole
replied on February 11th, 2008
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He said he would like 1 more child. He don't think it's a big deal what he did. I just don't know what to do or think.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on February 11th, 2008
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bd??
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Mabel
replied on February 11th, 2008
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd wrote:
bd??


BD = Baby Dance (have sex)
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Mabel
replied on February 11th, 2008
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Kiara_Nicole wrote:
He said he would like 1 more child. He don't think it's a big deal what he did. I just don't know what to do or think.


Then why was he intentionally sabatoging your efforts to get pregnant and he did it knowing that was what he was doing.

That speaks of some underlying issues.
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number game
replied on February 11th, 2008
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Oh I really don't know what to say. But I'm sorry this has been happening because I know what it's like to want to be pregnant and it NOT happen. This is wrong of him to do and I think that you guys need to have a serious talk about what you both want and a time frame for the things to happen in.
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tinkinpink84
replied on February 11th, 2008
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I would definately sit him down, You need to ask him why he did this, he knows plenty how pregnancy happens. There is a reason he did it and he deserves to tell you why. That just seems soooo cruel to do to you. WOW thats just wow thats all i can say , hopefully he talks to you and tells you what is going on.
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sick_mama17
replied on February 12th, 2008
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I agree, you need to have a serious conversation with him...
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