Joined: 08 Feb 2008 Posts: 1 Location: raymondville, texas united states of america
women squirting during climax Posted: 02-09-08 01:14am
I use to be a squirter when having a
climax, but i had surgery and not i find
that I can not aquirt any more. I am
wonder what could have happene to stop
that. I enjoy sex and that was one of my
favorite actions for me. What makes me
even sadder than not being able to squirt,
I notice it has almost put a hold on my
sex life with my boyfriend. When we first
had sex and found out that I was a
squirter he could hardly wait to have sex
with me but now I see the disappointment
on his face when it does not happen any
more, he even ask me if there was somone
else, or was he not a pleasing to me. I
explained about the sugery but it does not
help either one of us, I feel like a let
down to him in bed now. I have actually
been making up excuses not to have sex.
Can someone help me, why did the squirting
stop.
carol
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Thus Spoke Mia
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Joined: 03 Jan 2008 Posts: 30
Posted: 02-17-08 21:15pm
What sort of surgery did you have? And
have you brought this to your doctor's
attention? Maybe he or she can offer some
advice.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 02-18-08 12:09pm
sorry the surgery created so many problems
for you...i hope you can get the answers
you seek...i am also sorry that it has had
a negative affect on your sex life.
maybe you should sit down with your
boyfriend and tell him how this has made
you feel. Try to convince him that its
nothing hes doing, its just that your
body doesnt function the way it used to.
Maybe he can go with you to see your
doctor and maybe the doctor can explain it
better. He probably just thinks that hes
not good enough anymore. But maybe with
proof he will feel different. Also try not
to beat yourself up too much. This is not
your fault. You did not choose for this
to happen and you probably had to have the
surgery to protect your health...