What sort of surgery did you have? And have you brought this to your doctor's attention? Maybe he or she can offer some advice.

sorry the surgery created so many problems for you...i hope you can get the answers you seek...i am also sorry that it has had a negative affect on your sex life.

maybe you should sit down with your boyfriend and tell him how this has made you feel. Try to convince him that its nothing hes doing, its just that your body doesnt function the way it used to. Maybe he can go with you to see your doctor and maybe the doctor can explain it better. He probably just thinks that hes not good enough anymore. But maybe with proof he will feel different. Also try not to beat yourself up too much. This is not your fault. You did not choose for this to happen and you probably had to have the surgery to protect your health...

I wish the best for you and your boyfriend.

Do you know that most women do not squirt?
Do you know that though women do not squirt they are rapturously happy, loving and caring?

Squirting or no squirting ENJOYMENT is what matters. Is it not?

It is very clear that you have created a problem yourself by placing premium on squirting.

You want squirting or sexual pleasure?
You want squirting or friendship?

By the way squirting is not proved scientifically.

There is no reason for both of you to make a mountain out of a mole hill.

The mantra for good sex is carefree ENJOYMENT.

Get going. Life is beckoning you to live JOYOUSLY.

This is in response to" drashok's post that is above....

I believe a woman is a free spirit...There are no rules that she must follow by books that she may have read or not read...The path in life that she will take in developing her own sexuality is in front of her...Her lover will help make all these erotic things happen.....No man can possibly judge a woman's sexual thoughts and feelings and write of it...That is unless he lives inside her mind...And might I add, she hides herself in there most of the time......

On your statement: Do you know that most women do not squirt?

I would say many women do...But so many do not know what they are doing and follow through to complete this hot act of sexual joy....

On your statement: Do you know that though women do not squirt they are rapturously happy, loving and caring?

No, Most of them are hunting for the Holy Grail...They can feel it deep inside their vagina and it is a sexual ache and longing that they cannot fill...

On your statement: Squirting or no squirting ENJOYMENT is what matters. Is it not?

Squirting and sexual enjoyment go together...Squirting and the awakening of the vaginal want of a woman makes her hot and receptive to man...Without it, there can be a void...

On your statement: It is very clear that you have created a problem yourself by placing premium on squirting.

Once you have known heaven, limbo can be just like hell.....

On your statement: You want squirting or sexual pleasure?

Squirting makes you want sexual pleasure....It opens your eyes to the beyond...

On your statement: You want squirting or friendship?

Can't touch that one...Makes no sense....

On your statement: By the way squirting is not proved scientifically.

Not in your book, but in mine it is...I have talked to doctors and Urologists...Let's face it, I am having the time of my life....

On your statement: There is no reason for both of you to make a mountain out of a mole hill.

You as a man have no idea of what a wonderful mountain it is...It makes a woman a queen...She is a Sex Goddess and she knows it........

On your statement: The mantra for good sex is carefree ENJOYMENT.

The mantra for good sex for a woman is know your body....Let it all hang out...Stop pleasing man all the time and be pleasured yourself...Don't settle for seconds...Make every minute count....Be as down and dirty as you want to me and then ask for more....

On your statement: Get going. Life is beckoning you to live JOYOUSLY.

That alone is why I am writing here....Why I speak to women...To tell them of the hot sexual joy that they have awaiting them and to let loose....

Just my thoughts,
Caroline

Hi CarolineEF
You response was great!!! This issue is the most "misterious" gift on woman body.GBY!

Thank you...Once you have found this secret of passion, you never lose it...It will become the private smile between two lovers...You know, their secret...A place he takes her that only one man has the key to enter....When she unlockes that sensual door to her love canal...She allowed herself to become an animal....This is truly the name of lust....It is as good as it gets...

Take care,
Caroline

really good reply! I think squirting is really a blessing! many woman do not know about it.Many men do not help their mates to do it.drashok could understand her situation when he and his mate could enjoy the squirting!

What is to be proved? Its proved for those who did sqirting!

Thank you ayurcliniq_munnar: I believe that a man has no knowledge of the erotic passion of ejaculation....All they can do is guess....Their orgasms are simple...At the height of our highest pleasure, we find our soul.....This alone makes us smile remembering this precious part of us that will never die.....Only living there, can we speak of it.....The problem being that we just can't find the words....Could they be: Delicious, Animal like, Free, or a child with no shame, but in an adult state of life....She who has never known the word "restraint"....She is wild as the wind and can let it all hang out.....Ah, the precious joys of sex....

Have a good life my friend.....I do...xox C

What kind of surgery did you have, brownsugar?

Hi from Mexico. When girlfriend reached a sexual climax for the first time in her life she discovered she is a squirter. There is a lot of fluid but it's not obvious what kind of fluid it is. It does not smell like urine... can someone help ? Thanks, Pete