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she needs to test first of all! Then...Work from there.

Maybe you could go to the clinic and see if they will give you a test or 2 to take home to her??? Or maybe ask your school nurse if she can help. I'm sure she would. And if your friend is under 18, it is illegal for her dad to kick her out and no one can force her to have an abortion. But first things first, get her tested and find out!

Alright thank you for the help and support

Ur from hawiia??? I think its hawaii lol I doubt that u r from there anyway considering u cant spell it correctly but then again thats just my opinion. ~ erica.

Im not really from there im from detriot michigan and thats all I just wanted to put hawaii because it would be a nice place to live and everything by the ocean and all

First of all, get a test. Her dad can force her to have an abortion. It happens all of the time. If she is under 18 then he had legal guardianship and can make that decision for her.
But if you make sure that a lot of other adults know, ie guidance counselor, school nurse (as mentioned above) school principal or whatever, they can talk to him. He is less likely to "take charge" of the situation if he is being watched by other adults.
If you have a family planning type clinic in your area she can go there for free and they will not tell her dad. Do you two have any friends who can drive?

Hey I live in michigan! U put hawaii and u dont live there??...Thats kinda weird, even if it is a nice place..... O well tho~ but yea her dad im sure is just threatening.. Mine did the same thing, seemed real about it too,..But I seriously doubt it. Plus, no matter what, no one can force abortion. Theres always other options.. Theres no way for her or anyone to let her borrow money to get a test? ....

Ahhh ur from detroit michigan just like me ok well what crossroads are ya on or near. I was born here so maybe I can compare how far we are from each other. ~ erica.

I know you girls probaly have many questions to ask me but I need to head to bed im going to try and help my friend tommrow so bye im sorry im leaveing so soon

Wait a sec ! Where in detroit r u from? What crossings r u at or near? ~ erica.

Erica....Why would someone say there from hawii just cause they want to live there.

She probably had to postpone writing back to answer because shes online looking at cities in detroit to pick which one she lives in..And to check the spelling...


Lol.. Im mean but hey. Im gettin a fake vibe!

Lol kari I was thinking the same thing. Mommabear, dont know why. Do u guys think what I think hmmmmmmm rofl I already know anyway. She cant lie. I know where everything in detroit is so theres no pulling the wool over my eyes she should have picked a different location lol. U know what I think about sometimes? As dumb as it sounds I wonder if this whole time of fakers, that it has always been one person the same one we caught in the begginng ya know? Like they just keep making new people to get caught ect cuz the amounts of fakes we have had since the very first one has been outrageous!! Not too normal if u ask me. What would give all them supposedly diff people a reason to come on and act fake ? Just a thought. ~ erica.

If you are under eighteen you are not legally an adult. Therefore, you are under the care of your legal guardian/s. Maybe they changed the law, but when I was a teenager my best friend's parents forced her to have an abortion. And no, they did not threaten her, they took her, signed the papers and made her have an abortion. If you ever visit the abortion forum, there are many other women who had the same happen to them. So, yes her father could very well force her to have an abortion.

No no .. Ive never heard that that can happen. Ever.. . Ive done tons of research on this. .No one can force someone to do that. . .?! Its prolly just that they were young, there parents said that had to and said they were forcing it, so it was done. But legally its not done like that. Ive talked to 3 officers about this and a judge for a school project senior year.

If you tell the doctor you dont want an abortion he cant do it. If he does he will be fired and sued! (sp?)

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Exactly, doesnt matter if ur underage or not, u still always have the right to your body. Especially when your over 12.

Ok I believe you, but the law must have changed in the last ten years. Because that is not how it used to be. But thank god for that!

Ohok I dont know about 10 yrs ago I was only 8 lol** im glad too~