Guys to give me your opinions and feedback since i've been coming here for a bit.........



My b/f of 2.5 years dumped me 6 weeks ago and he is now with who I used to call a good friend and is in love with her already. Our sex life kinda took a dive after an incident last summer where he couldnt hold his erection and then turned his back on me and said we lost our "special something" and hes worried. I told him not to worry about it and stuff like that happens. We did end up having sex that night although I was not at all willing and it was more of a *we're doing it now cause I can hold it*. Ever since then I tried to please him compromising my own enjoyment for his. And always felt guilty whenever he wasnt pleased and he let me know it. Now fast forward to now and I tried to have sex with my new guy and I just froze up and couldnt do it, all I saw was him walking away angry with me no matter what (hes very understanding and is being very paitent with me.) is this some type of sexual anxiety? Is there such thing? Probably a dumb question but no 21 year old should be afraid of sex. I edited it cause I trust you guys much more (no offense to those who have already responded, you've been great help!!)


meg