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Hello, Im just like everyone else on this board, i keep losing my erection whenever i have sex my girl...

I'am 23 yr old, we only tried to have sex 3 or 4 times though.. so i decided to go doctor, and find whats wrong with me..

They ran a ton of test on me, and they said i was in great health, so my docotor told me that it was performance anxiety....

So she prescribe me xanax, i havent taken the xanax yet, before sex so the other night my girl and me tried having sex again...

I felt comfortable, and didnt feel nervous or nothing, so i felt i didnt need the xanax, but everytime i get up.. And we start havin sex, maybe like 5mins later it'll slip out and go soft.....

So do you think i should try taking the xanax, before sex as a extra precaution???

Im really tired of this problem..
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replied February 6th, 2008
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i suggest you don't have a look at his product. spammer.

i've never heard of people being prescribed xanax for this. did it come with instructions? how did he tell you to take it? i mean i imagine xanax isn't the sort of thing you can just take before sex and you'll magically get erections. it's probably something you'd have to take consistently? but if it's just that you are scared of performance, i don't think you should be given anxiety drugs :S... i mean how long has this been going on for?
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replied February 7th, 2008
she prescibe me xanax to calm me down and relax me..

And she said i should take it may 30 mins before sex, she anxiety can stop erections..
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replied February 7th, 2008
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I definitely agree that anxiety can lead to loss of erections or inability to maintain one. Xanax is worth a try as it is an anxiolytic. I did not mean to spam here but it was just a product that one of my patients tried and it worked for him very well. Regards.
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replied March 11th, 2008
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I'm going to be honest here. Sex again after only 5 min is a good reason not to have another emmediate erection and keep it. Your testostrone levels are lower after sex and need time to rebalance out. To me it sounds like you are trying to hard and to often. Just a thought.

Carrie
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replied March 27th, 2008
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My hubby & I have just visited a clinic for nasal delivery sprays for him, due to him not being able to hold an erection during intercoarse.We have tried just about everything known to man and (woman) to correct this dilema!!! (although he has not started any form of treatment at this moment). This clinic does not offer alot of advice of what & how it works,, So u can see the predicament we or shall i say (he) is in, with concerns about the co$t first off.. and if there are any harsh/ long term or medical side effects,including dependency in the long term. (yes we have asked all the Q's) and searched the net for answers, but would like some information if any men have or are trying it, we understand this can be a very touchy subject, as it has taken my hubby just over a year and a half to accept and admit there is a slight problem,. however we respect peoples privacy so if you would like too , and are willing to help us both out here, PM us, we will delete all msgs as soon as we have read them, and respect and value each reply.. thank you . S & J. Smile
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replied December 31st, 2009
Hi, I have performance anxiety too. What works for me is three things, Viagra first,then wait half hour and have 3 drinks and a medium dose of xanax 1.5mg. I just started trying this and it has worked 5 for 5, I have regained confidence, and have been much more happy.So you keep trying and don't quite, and best of luck to you.
PS get you meds from a Doc, online are sometimes fake.
Oh and it helps if you let her know you are a little nervous.
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replied September 17th, 2012
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My doc prescribed me with Xanax for performance anxiety I took 1gm of Xanax but made me feel tired. Is that the way your sapose to feel. When I take 0.50 I don't feel nothing should I just take the 1gm
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replied September 17th, 2012
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My doc prescribed me with Xanax for performance anxiety I took 1gm of Xanax but made me feel tired. Is that the way your sapose to feel. When I take 0.50 I don't feel nothing should I just take the 1gm
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replied January 1st, 2010
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I wont take anything, also I will check in my habits first. Do you masturbate a lot? or you watch a lot of porno or you may get very anxious when Having sex because you dont want to be a daday yet, HR
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replied May 12th, 2010
hi,
just want to ask something which i dont understand what is
wrong with me every time we do making love with my girl it so happen that i alway me keep first coming which my partner i think dont even enjoy with. please do me an advice what sort of things should i do.to make my partner satisfied also.
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replied May 14th, 2011
Hi give your partner time to relax and be open with her let her tell you what turns her on, dont be in a hurry to satisfy your self but give her all the time in the world watch her listen to her and let her know how much you worship the time with her. there is no better aphrodisiac to a woman than honest comment.Just this mans view
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replied October 18th, 2012
erection problems
I lately have been having erection problems i have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and we have been having sex but lately whenever i try i go soft and i find it almost impossible to get it up without playing with it for ages which as you can imagine is not attractive to a girl i also find certain parts are sore all the time and i am more prone to yeast infections, what do i do my doctors useless and the gu clinic keeps giving me cream that helps infections but lose sensation. Any ideas would be welcome.
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replied October 18th, 2012
yes i will also suggest you not to take any kind of drug for long erection. early climax happens with all person sometime so you don't have to think on it just relax and do comfortably and as you will be regular all problem will be solved automatically.
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