Joined: 04 Feb 2008 Posts: 1 Location: NC, Chapel hill, USA
anal sex issues Posted: 02-04-08 20:55pm
hi everyone my name is Jenn and i need
your help. one time me and my x tried
having annal sexwell something very nasty
happened not going on details but when my
x penis went in it didnt come out the same
color and well when it came out it came
out with something extra that i dont think
is good. I felt pretty imbarrest.
Now my fiancee brought up the subject of
doing it with me is not that i dont
want to do it is that Im affraid what
happen last time can happen this time and
i dont want that... he thinks i have never
done it so he was explaining it to me but
i dont think guys feel the same we do. can
you ladies help me and tell me what to do
so that it doesnt happened i dont know if
it has ever happened to any of you but its
pretty scary.. Help I should be down to
see my boyfriend in 2 days and well i wont
know what to do if he tries it. thank you
in advance.
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Flurries in the air
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2007 Posts: 388 Location: Chicago
Posted: 02-04-08 21:03pm
go to the bathroom before and then clean
it with soap.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-04-08 22:29pm
Well it's completely possible that feces
came out with the other man's penis.
That's pretty normal, considering your
anus and colon is full of feces.
The best way to prevent such an accident
again is to make sure you've already gone
#2 recently. If you're feeling very
paranoid, you can buy a cleansing enema
kit and completely clean the inside and
outside of your anus and lower colon.
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kassie_sept08
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2008 Posts: 15 Location: ,
Posted: 02-04-08 23:34pm
if i were you...first of all i wouldnt
worry and i wouldnt be so0 hard on
urself...caca happens...n0 pun
intended...but it does.
just because this happened once does not
mean its going to happen everry time.its
probably not goin to even happen again. it
probably just happened to be a bad timing
sort of thing. dont worry!
but if u are relle worried, which u seem
to be..b4 u start u know fo0ling around
and watever go to the bathroom...if u feel
even the slightest urge to go #2 then deff
do it b4..make sure u clean well. and then
hope for the best... and if u relle are
serious about this i agree with the other
person..use an enema kit. but if ur not
serious and u are worried. tell him that
ur not relle comfortable. thats wat i told
my bf and he knows im not gonna do it.
does he ask me? sure. does he want to?
yes. but every time i tell him no because
im not comfortable with it nor do i like
it..well i hope i helped u out somehow.
go0d luck and let us know wat happens! =]
Now my fiancee brought up the subject of
doing it with me 
is not that i dont
want to do it is that Im affraid what
happen last time can happen this time and
i dont want that... he thinks i have never
done it so he was explaining it to me but
i dont think guys feel the same we do. can
you ladies help me and tell me what to do
so that it doesnt happened i dont know if
it has ever happened to any of you but its
pretty scary.. Help I should be down to
see my boyfriend in 2 days and well i wont
know what to do if he tries it. thank you
in advance.
