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mr tibbs

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:06pm


Seems like playing in the sewer to me. Medically unsafe, hygienically very unpleasant, morally...if it is two men, well, that's your call.

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:09pm


I think a LOT of people think that the only thing 2 men can do together is anal sex...that SO is not the case...there are tones of things gay men can do with each other besides anal sex....and you say morally??? I am not touching that...judge NOT...

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:14pm


NO DOUBT, i agree. STD's are dangerous, gay or straight. And I agree that there is No safer sex, than none at all. Actualyl homer since you say that i have a question. Other than anal sex, and say like a blowjob or whatever, what else is there? Im being straight honest and being serious, im trying to stay learned and know my facts and be open.

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:16pm


Why? So you think it morally acceptable for a man to stick his penis into another man's rectum.

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:25pm


Heylookitsphill,Ok, I can appreciate that...since you asked, I will try but its like explaining how to eat or breath...but let me try...there are toys of course, there is mutual masturbation, there is hugging and kissing and rubbing and heavy petting, putting the penis between your partners legs...all that. Its like trying to explain what two people do together...straight or gay or whatever...we all have our ways of getting off and making love. If 2 people love each other then there are endless possibilities. Of course I have been in a monogamous relationship for 14 years so I may not be hip to all the latest gadgets and what not that are out there...all I know is it works for me. I am not going to argue with mr.tibbs...

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:33pm


I dont know if Morals arent involved in being GAY. I feel like its at a different level then Morals, i dunno. But of course im as you would say " religious", i believe it was not how God Intended, but I was only answering his Medical Concerns. I dont wanna force him to try and change. Thats not what im here for. In a non-biblical standpoint, i still dont get it, myself, because Another guys penis really repulses me personally. But thats just me. Plus im a firm believer, that people arent BORN gay. I know that According to famous child psychologist, Piaget, that at birth babies only have a sensori-motor perception. At the point of infancy the only things that babies know is, suck ( mothers breast for milk) and cry. I really doubt that somewhere there is a baby going ( You know, breast milk is fine and all, but i could use really nice penis right about now) And also i believe in the theory of " Everyone was at one point Bi-curious" Everyone goes through Completely different situations than another person, and by the way things play out, there always comes a sexual thought of... "what would it be like IF." Sure it sounds pretty Freudian, still nonetheless true. IMO, along with many many others, is that something came up, in which you thought someone in the same sex, in a sexual matter. Some may not remember, because it was very brief, and you shrugged it off very quickly. Maybe something tipped you off to realize well, i dont like that, so im straight. And some others, something happened, and they played out the homosexual thoughts, and found something about it pleasurable. Whatever it was. Since human beings are very hedonistic, ( constantly seeking pleasure), we keep looking for things that give us pleasure. So i think that, when you realized, that experienced was pleasurable for you, you kept going for it. Then as you grew up, and you all of a sudden learned " ooooh, so thats called being homosexual ( gay.) That must mean im gay, and then you stuck with it. Again Thats just MY personal belief system. Im not gonna say im absolutely right, my theory is pretty naive im sure, but i believe there is alot of elements of truth to it. And if you dont agree, say it, let me know. But be honest, sincere and not a jerk about it. Let me know what you think, im curious. Ive actually told all this to a guy, that ive worked with that is GAY, and he agrees that it makes sense. It may have been because he has been flirting with me as long as ive known him but lol. I

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Posted: 02-06-08 12:51pm


I was born gay. No one will ever convince me otherwise. I have never ever been attracted to or had sex with a woman. They are great and all that but sexually and romantically, no. There are gay and bi creatures in all of the animal kingdom and in the kingdom of man. I don't expect someone who is straight to appreciate the different levels of sexuality...Kinsey 1 threw Kinsey 6...and thats cool. I know who and what i am and I don't feel the need to explain myself to anyone. Most people believe what they believe and that wont change no matter what I say or what anyone else says. Its cool to agree to disagree..

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Posted: 02-07-08 19:50pm


I love you homerx. haha. I'm gay. I was born gay. When I was younger, if I had a choice, I would have chosen to be straight... hands down. So many people dont' realise how hard it is to come to accept your own homosexuality. However, my NATURAL tendencies have led me to like men.... and, as of right now, I'm completely happy with it. Can you choose to be attracted to blonde over brunettes? or Heavy women over slim women? Chances are you can't. You naturally react to a certain type of person. I naturally react to men. I have tried being with women, and though I get along with them very well, I am not attracted to them enough to sustain any sort of relationship or long lasting sexual relationship. I have been with a man for almost a year and have never been happier. Did I choose to come out of the closet? Of course. Did I choose to be attracted to men? Absolutely not. Do not get the two confused because if you do, you are grossly misinformed. As for the anal sex part. I think that the body is full of areas that can be stimulated or accessed for pleasure. Pleasure is a natural part of human existence. Why? The body is loaded with pleasure centres. Some people find certain things pleasureful, other people do not. Just because one person does not find something pleasureful, does not mean it broadly isn't. Different parts of the body have different (and multiple) functions, some of which can include getting rid of waste AS WELL AS being a pleasure centre (oh, my, the penis comes to mind). Saying the anus is exit only when someone can find prostate stimulation or anal sex pleasurable is naive at best. Is oral sex wrong? Is swallowing semen wrong? It all depends on how YOU personally see it. As long as you do it safely, and with mutual consent... it's totally subjective. Therefore, if you safely and consensually engage in anal sex and enjoy it, it's NOT wrong. End of story.

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Posted: 02-07-08 20:01pm


marvel, thanks. You are right...I agree with everything you said. I think a lot of gay kids want to be straight because it would be so much easier. You are accepted at school and you are just like all the other kids in your school if you are straight. It aint so easy to be gay. For one thing, you have to pretend your like everyone else just for your own safety...that sucks! Just like I am sure handicapped kids want to be "normal" and blind kids want to see. When you are young you give a s*it what people think. Hopefully you grow out of that and into your own. Be you. Be true to yourself and you cant go wrong. Dont be what you think people want you to be, be what and who you are.

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Posted: 02-07-08 20:13pm

mr tibbs wrote:

Why? So you think it morally acceptable for a man to stick his penis into another man's rectum.

its not your judgemnet or you to say if its ok or not THANKYOUVERYMUCH

its FINE
gay
straight
whatever

dont be a hater now

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Posted: 02-07-08 20:50pm


marvel and homer you know what? you two are extremly strong smart men. dont ever let anyone bring you down about your sexuality. the world is blind. there is so much racism that still floats around this world its unreal.

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Posted: 02-07-08 21:22pm


i dont think there is anything wrong with it. have you ever thought of how unhealthy same sex is? yeah.

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Posted: 02-07-08 21:31pm


what do you mean how "unhealthy" it is?

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Posted: 02-07-08 21:51pm

the_girlfriend wrote:

marvel and homer you know what? you two are extremly strong smart men. dont ever let anyone bring you down about your sexuality. the world is blind. there is so much racism that still floats around this world its unreal.

Thank you, girlfriend...I LOVE YOU! Love is a gift, not a curse...don't let the haters of this world get you down...they are just miserable with themselves and there fore have to take it out on the lovers of the world.Peace,DOLL!!! Smile

YOU ROCK!

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Posted: 02-07-08 21:57pm

kapowkristen wrote:

i dont think there is anything wrong with it. have you ever thought of how unhealthy same sex is?
yeah.

kapowkristen, you say there is nothing wrong with it and then, in the same sentence you say its unhealthy...UUmmm...ok... Rolling Eyes

You say in your profile that you are bi and have a girlfriend...but thats OK??? Come on, you cant have one set of rules for yourself and another for everyone else. If you are bi then be bi, if you are straight then be straight, if you are gay then be gay, but STOP with the finger pointing and judgment. You are bi??? There is something wrong with that logic then. R U saying its OK for girls to be bi but not guys? Thats a wee hypocritical, don't you think??? I was also looking at your past posts and your profile and you have head trips that you may want to have a shrink check out. Talk to someone for real. I am not trying to be mean but your confused. Your very young and I think you may need to talk to a professional. I don't want you to hurt yourself. You say you have a girlfriend. Great. Now is it OK if I have a boyfriend? Do you and your girlfriend have sex? If so great, if not, thats great also, but do not come on here and try to tell me who and what to do in my relationship. That bird wont fly with me! You have to give respect to get respect. But for real, if you are depressed and cutting yourself or have a eating disorder or whatever it is you are doing, GET HELP. Tell your parents or teachers or counciler or someone but don't let it eat you alive and dont take it out on us innocent bystanders please.Peace and Love and I hope you can get it together. voices

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Posted: 02-07-08 22:18pm

the_girlfriend wrote:

mr tibbs wrote:

Why? So you think it morally acceptable for a man to stick his penis into another man's rectum.

its not your judgemnet or you to say if its ok or not THANKYOUVERYMUCH

its FINE
gay
straight
whatever

dont be a hater now

I see mr tibbs didn't mention if it was morally discusting to stick his penis in a womans rectum!!! I think mr.tibbs is too old to change his hatter ways...lost cause...plus, if you look at his past posts under his profile, hes a bit of an old perv. Just what we need, another old perve preaching to us about morals! Rolling Eyes

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Posted: 02-07-08 22:57pm


Of course its ok! Its all about what you want and who you want regardless as to whether or not its male/female or conventional! Life is too short to worry about something that gives you pleasure. You love who you love! Just be careful and realize that there's nothing wrong with what you feel....despite what Mike Hucka-wanna-throw-him-off-a-bridge might say! Sorry I just really hate him.....and he won for Rep. for Alabama....very upset!

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Posted: 02-08-08 00:34am

lele25 wrote:

Of course its ok! Its all about what you want and who you want regardless as to whether or not its male/female or conventional! Life is too short to worry about something that gives you pleasure. You love who you love! Just be careful and realize that there's nothing wrong with what you feel....despite what Mike Hucka-wanna-throw-him-off-a-bridge might say! Sorry I just really hate him.....and he won for Rep. for Alabama....very upset!

lele25, I was very upset about Huckabutt myself. Crying
or Very sad

Just what we need, another republican tight ass close minded homophone old fart in office. Its sad and scary that Americans are walking down that path. ..your pain is my pain 2.! Crying
or Very sad

mr tibbs

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Posted: 02-15-08 17:36pm

homerx wrote:

the_girlfriend wrote:

mr tibbs wrote:

Why? So you think it morally acceptable for a man to stick his penis into another man's rectum.

its not your judgemnet or you to say if its ok or not THANKYOUVERYMUCH

its FINE
gay
straight
whatever

dont be a hater now

Goodness me, I have ruffled your feathers haven't I?

Your posts started in such a mawkish, syrupy declaration of 'How I love everyone...' (simper, simper) Now you want to scratch my eyes out and hit me with your purse!

To be labelled an old perv by the likes of you is a positive compliment!!

mr tibbs

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Posted: 02-15-08 17:45pm

the_girlfriend wrote:

mr tibbs wrote:

Why? So you think it morally acceptable for a man to stick his penis into another man's rectum.

its not your judgemnet or you to say if its ok or not THANKYOUVERYMUCH

its FINE
gay
straight
whatever

dont be a hater now

It most certainly is my judgement! I think it NOT ok to stick your penis into a male or female's bottom. I suppose you haven't heard of a rather nasty condition called HIV spread as a result of this 'beautiful,natural' sexual perversion.