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Q: Is gay sex okay?
asked by: eggfarmer on February 4th, 2008
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I a gay and i need to know if it okay baffle
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Galaxy
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Well, I asked my dog and she said it was fine by her ... Laughing
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Heylookitsphill
replied on February 4th, 2008
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To be honest there is alot of things actually bad, about sex between 2 guys.

1. The well i dunno medical term but your butt crack and in that area, contains alot of diseases and different things. So your basically sticking your member in to a pool of nasty stuff.

2. You can break a pivotol part in your colon with the force applied to that area.
I really wish i could remember where i found it, but im lookin it up and im doin searches, but having no results.

The place where i read it even said it in the way most people think
" Its an Exit, Not an Entrance"

That area was not designed for penetration..

So is it right, medically i say no.
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Fairy Godmother
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Hi
I have my own opinion about this question, but then I ask myself and remind others......before we type a word....WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? This is your life......you live it as you see fit.............
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homerx
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Re: Hi
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
I have my own opinion about this question, but then I ask myself and remind others......before we type a word....WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? This is your life......you live it as you see fit.............


I am a gay man but I think I LOVE YOU!!!!! voices you are so cool...I read your profile and we have a lot in common....I am gonna add you to my friends list...hope thats OK. Peace and Love,HomerX respect
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young Girl
replied on February 4th, 2008
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no one can tell you if its right
you are who you are
you feel what you feel
about who you feel that way toards and NO ONE can tell you otherwise. there is nothing wrong with it. you fall in love with who you fall in love with. just be careful and ,make sure your partner is tested for stds before you do ANYTHING. because anal sexc you can contract diseases too. so just be extra careful and you do what you do
and dont ever
let anyone
tell you otherwise
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Heylookitsphill
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Well i mean i maybe wrong, but i think he was asking in a " medical" stand point.
is it morally " wrong", i agree with the others, that everyones gonna have their own belief systems about. Myself i honestly say No, in a biblical stand point, but im not basing my answer on my beliefs.

I assumed his question was for Medical reasonings, and if its ok " medically", i say no also, for the reasons that i posted above.
Morally, I wont try to sway you anyways, but i believe not.
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young Girl
replied on February 4th, 2008
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yes but as long as your wearing a condom and you clean yourself properly afterwards then you shouldnt have any problems.

anal sex has been around for a really long time. and it may be an exit but isnt the vagina an exit too?
you cant say "its an exit not an entrance" when the vagina is also an "exit"
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homerx
replied on February 4th, 2008
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the_girlfriend wrote:
yes but as long as your wearing a condom and you clean yourself properly afterwards then you shouldnt have any problems.

anal sex has been around for a really long time. and it may be an exit but isnt the vagina an exit too?
you cant say "its an exit not an entrance" when the vagina is also an "exit"


What an excellent point. If you think about it, all sex organs are exits!!! I never really thought of that before...so use a condom, gay or straight and have fun!!! Power to the People! Peace and Love,homerx voices
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o0Heather
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Dr rojan bhonsle
"Medical science regards anal sex as "high-risk behaviour". Basically, the anus is not designed for penetration by any hard object. The anal sphincter tightens ordinarily if stimulated, and attempts at penile insertion may be distressing even if done slowly and gently. If the penis is forced into the anus, injury is a possibility. The lining (mucus membrane) of the rectum is very thin, tears easily, does not heal very fast and so it is vulnerable to infections. Also, the tears can enlarge to a fissure or a crack leading to the outside of your body. These are painful and slow to heal. There is the remote possibility that a fistula could open up, allowing faeces to reroute into the abdominal cavity or into the vagina. That is serious trouble. There is also the increased risk of haemorrhoids, which are quite uncomfortable. Anal sex can also be a source of discomfort in both a physical and emotional sense.

One final note about anal sex - Masters & Johnson in their book on Sex and Human Loving warn that anything that has been inserted into the anus should not be subsequently put into the vagina unless it has been thoroughly washed. Bacteria that are naturally present in the anus can cause vaginal infections, so moving from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse is unhygienic."

This is not an opinion just some medical concerns to think about
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young Girl
replied on February 4th, 2008
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homerx wrote:
the_girlfriend wrote:
yes but as long as your wearing a condom and you clean yourself properly afterwards then you shouldnt have any problems.

anal sex has been around for a really long time. and it may be an exit but isnt the vagina an exit too?
you cant say "its an exit not an entrance" when the vagina is also an "exit"


What an excellent point. If you think about it, all sex organs are exits!!! I never really thought of that before...so use a condom, gay or straight and have fun!!! Power to the People! Peace and Love,homerx voices


your such a happy positive person!!!! i could just hug you!
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young Girl
replied on February 4th, 2008
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it is never safe to go from anal to vaginal
ever

but in the case of gay men, theres no vagina involved Wink
germs can still be spread just like any other type of sex
thats why a condom always present is the best way to go!!!!!!!!
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homerx
replied on February 4th, 2008
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also, never go from anal to oral...unless you wash that rascal!!! HUG ME and I'll HUG YOU BACK!Smile BIG HUGGSSS!!!! You know, I really try my hardest to bring joy into my life and to make others joyous also...it isn't always easy but it is worth the effort...and your a really positive person also...I bet we could be good friends if we lived close to each other...I have liked your posts and profile ever since I joined this site! Peace and Love,homerx
Double hugs to Kristen!!!!Wink Smile yes cartwheel yes kiss pray pointl 4you I live in Texas also!!!!!!!!!! scared scared scared
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homerx
replied on February 4th, 2008
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Heylookitsphill wrote:
To be honest there is alot of things actually bad, about sex between 2 guys.

1. The well i dunno medical term but your butt crack and in that area, contains alot of diseases and different things. So your basically sticking your member in to a pool of nasty stuff.

2. You can break a pivotol part in your colon with the force applied to that area.
I really wish i could remember where i found it, but im lookin it up and im doin searches, but having no results.

The place where i read it even said it in the way most people think
" Its an Exit, Not an Entrance"

That area was not designed for penetration..

Just a little FYI...not all gay sex is anal and straight people do it up the butt also...so sex period is unsafe, if that is your logic.

So is it right, medically i say no.


Just a little FYI: there is a lot bad about sex period...be it man on man, man on woman...but not really woman on woman..straight people do it up the butt also and not all gay people perform anal sex...there is A LOT of different things 2 men can do besides butt sex that is safe and fun and non invasive....so your wrong there. I ought to know! Wink
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JacobRyan
replied on February 5th, 2008
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Yes

and

yes...


Don't listen to anyone telling you that it is wrong. As a medical safety issue, I'm sure there are hazards but it's the same with any kind of sex. Be smart and safe and I'm sure you'll be fine.
Just remember that cake is great when eaten properly.
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homerx
replied on February 5th, 2008
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Just remember that cake is great when eaten properly.Laughing Laughing Laughing thats classic! i never heard that one before... Laughing Laughing Laughing voices
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Heylookitsphill
replied on February 6th, 2008
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the_girlfriend wrote:
yes but as long as your wearing a condom and you clean yourself properly afterwards then you shouldnt have any problems.

anal sex has been around for a really long time. and it may be an exit but isnt the vagina an exit too?
you cant say "its an exit not an entrance" when the vagina is also an "exit"


Yes the vagina is an "exit" but at the same time, the vagina is where the penis is SUPPOSED to go, in order to have babies. Vagina is an exit and an entrance. The anus is Exit only. Smile
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homerx
replied on February 6th, 2008
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not true...if the vagina is where the penis is SUPPOSED to go, then so is the ear eye nose and throat...and butt!!!! Who R U 2 say that the anus is EXIT only? WRONG!! and you bleed and pee out your vagina, thats is just as grouse to a lot of gay guys as anal sex is to straight girls although a lot of straight people have anal sex 2! I saw it in a movie.Smile Laughing Laughing Laughing scared scared scared
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Heylookitsphill
replied on February 6th, 2008
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homerx wrote:
not true...if the vagina is where the penis is SUPPOSED to go, then so is the ear eye nose and throat...and butt!!!! Who R U 2 say that the anus is EXIT only? WRONG!! and you bleed and pee out your vagina, thats is just as grouse to a lot of gay guys as anal sex is to straight girls although a lot of straight people have anal sex 2! I saw it in a movie.Smile Laughing Laughing Laughing scared scared scared



WHAT? If you stick a penis in someones EAR or NOSE ( good luck on that one), you wont get a baby that way.
The vagina is an exit and entrance. Yes you pee and they bleed and all that there, but it was designed to take a male penis so pregnancy can occur.

And the anus Is MEANT to be exit only for HUMANS, because the human body cant take that much penetration. Read a couple of posts above where it mentions the hazards to anal sex. oOHeather's post, has all the scientific stuff about it, and the dangers of it.
Im not saying hes not allowed to go there. I'm telling that in a medical standpoint, im not trying to say what he can/ cant do.

You ask any doctor, theyll tell you the same. The vagina is meant to be a
Exit/Entrance and the Anus is meant to be an Exit. The anus can be used as an entrance, and it does, and will keep being one, but its not meant to be. Its very disease ridden, and too much pentration can break that inner lining if not other things.

Im not saying what he cant do.. im saying the medical concerns to consider.
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homerx
replied on February 6th, 2008
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Yeah, no doubt. You got a point 4 sure.You gotta be careful with the butt..but VD is 4 everyone. The only really safe sex is no sex. And I don't think that when men and women have intercourse it is always to procreate, sometimes its to recreate! Go shorty, its your birthday, we gonna party like its your birthday...but seriously, I know what your saying.Smile
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