i just wanted to let you know your not alone. i've been having sex with my boyfriend for a year and a half and have never been able to manage an orgasm at all! you can imagine how frustrated he is. oral doesnt do it. sex doesnt do it. even just fingering/rubbing cant get me off. so i have no suggestions for you. just wanted to let you know shes not alone there. and dont give up! experimenting is the fun part

Hey! My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years (together for alomost 4) and I have only had an orgasm ONCE from sex alone. Oral doesn't do it for me either....unless alot of rubbing/touching is involved. So, I find other ways to orgasm. Here are some things I do that you and your girlfriend can try (if you are comfortable enough with each other). 1# Buy a toy, just a small vibrator that she can use on her self during sex, or you can use on her. 2# Do it doggy style, that way, SHE has access to her vaginia and can use her fingers during sex. 3# Let her be on top, that way YOU have full access to her vagina and you can use your hands on her. 4# While she is on top, tell her to go all the way down on your penis and grind back and forward (this should allow her clitorus (sp?) to be stimulated enough for her to orgasm.). Well, that's all I'v got for ya! Those things REALLY work for me! Talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you feel comfortable with these things (only if you really do of course). Tell her not to be shy;O) Good luck!!

Teresa<3

Tell her to be on top.

If she can find her sweet spot you guys will be all good. It took us forever to find mine. If i am on the bottom, forget it. Sittin straight up is the key. Pumping up and down doesn't work for me either. I have to grind and at the same time, moving my hips front to back. I also find that if i start doing keagles while grinding, i get off faster. (not always wanting faster) You will be able to feel her G spot as well with your penis. When she is on top, you have full access to her nipples and her clit. Clitoral orgasims only work for me during oral sex. I have to be sitting on my husbands face and at the same time tweaking my own nipples. If she does keagles, that is the excercise that tightens her vaginal muscles, making it better for you. It makes her seem tighter. She can do these excercises during intercourse, you'll be able to feel her do this. You will know when she has an orgasm as the muscles in her vagina will contract and spasm. Have fun. Now I can't wait for mine to get home!!!!!!!!

Okay so I've been trying to explore this question for a while now. I know so many girls who have never even experienced a orgasm period! I feel so horrible for them!! But what Ive come to find out from talking to women and girls is that, [I know it may sound weird and a lot of people aren't comfortable talking about it in public] They don't pleasure themselves by themselves with no one around. They have never touched themselves they figured it dirty and gross.. But you have to be comfortable with your body and know how to please yourself!! You girls and women need to figure out your own buttons before someone else can find them. When you aren't comfortable with something then you aren't gonna let yourself achieve the orgasm!! So maybe if she doesn't pleasure herself alone.. Have her try that by herself and alone let her explore her own body!!! Hope this helps!

I agree. I am of the opinion that if you don't know yourself and how to make yourself have an orgasm how can you expect someone else to do it.

Another big factor...the mind is the biggest sex organ.

For some reason it seems people are of the opinion that woman on top means bouncing up and down. Sliding along his shaft feels great but more so for him. Hit bottom and rock and grind, that's what feels good for women.

Well when I was younger I coulnt at all once me and hubby found the right ways it was easy for me when I was on top...but no other way...unless from behind with some help. My question is is there 2 different types of Orgasms? Cause I can only get on through clit stimulation.....not through just my vagina alone....Is it possible to have an orgasm without the clit being touched?