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Q: breakup after 2.5 years
asked by: Aunt WeeWee on February 4th, 2008
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Ok. I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 yrs. & now it's all done & over w/.......
( Yea I will admit right now, I havn't been the perfect gf & I have done stuff i shouldn't have.)

The last 4 months of our relationship has been long distance. Well I have been notice-n 4 bout 2 wks, dat my bf (now x) has not had much 2 say on the phone & he's been act-n very different towards me.

Last wk I finally asked him wut was go-n on. he tells me he has fall-n n love w/ sum1 else, but he didn't kno wut he wanted 2 do, & blah, blah, blah........

The next day he tells me he dosn't want 2 B w/ her, he wants 2 stay w/ me, & ask if I would 4give him. So of course (my stupid self) I did 4give him..........

Well 2 days afta this, it was his b-day. So soon as I woke up I called him 2 wish him a happy b-day & this girl (that he fell n love w/ & he supposably didn't want 2 B w/), answers his phone.........

I heard him n da back ground, but she keep say-n he was n the shower, so I told her I would hold on the phone until he got done. Well bout 5 mins. lata he get on the phone, & I said; "I jus wanted 2 tell U happy b-day", he said; "Thanks, can I call U lata", I said; " Yea wut the F**K eva" & hung up.........

This happen friday morn-n, he didn't call me til sunday morn-n. So I straight up told him 2 please don't call me nomore & I don't want anythin 2 do w/ him anymore.

I really don't want 2 B w/ him anymore, but this is still really tough 4 me, cause I really do love him......

Has any1 had this happen 2 them b-4?????
How does sumthin like this happen????????
How do U get ova sumthin like this????????

Any advice or opinions would help!!!!

THANKS!
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Blue Tink
replied on February 5th, 2008
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Girl, stuff ike that happens more often than not. take it one day at a time. I was with my ex husband for 8 years & one day he calls me at work and says he doesn't know if he wants to be married to me anymore and that he thinks he wants a DIVORCE... I just heard DIVORCE and went to file right away. Did I still luv him? YES!! Did it hurt?YES!! We divorced in Nov 2004 and I remarried in Dec 2005 to an awesome guy. My ex was always running around like a dog in heat with every one and any one. So it's gonna sting but Ur knight in shinning armor is coming ur way soon. Just stay strong.. Much luck 2 u!!
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Neek
replied on March 14th, 2008
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as much as you love him, the objectives are there that show him he is not for you. his gf. etc
i have been in a similar thing and it hurts
if you were outside the situation and saw it happenign to one of your friends you would tell them to get out (i know i would)
but i cant seem to take my own advice either

its so hard
i hope you and i can find peace some1 who will return the love that we give.
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Aunt WeeWee
replied on March 17th, 2008
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Neek,
You are very rite! Thank you for that advice!
I'm very nerves about this wknd. My X will be in town Sat. & Sun. It will be the first time i have seen him since he left. I really don't even want to see him. I think I will be ok. It has been very tough getting threw this, but I seem to be making it. I'm actually talking to another guy, but its not serious yet, we just started talking a little ova a wk ago.

Well I wish both of us luck!!!!
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