Hi im new, names phillip, im 22 and I dont masturbate. I mean never, not once. I have wet dreams every once in a while. I understand that its " normal" , and "healthy", but Personally i dont understand the attraction to it, but not the point. Anyways, since i dont masturbate and that i'm also a virgin, i've noticed a just a little catch to my abstinence. It does not take much for me to get a hard-on, but mostly its when something can be sitting in my lap, or i could just be a hugging a girl, does NOT take long. It kinda bothers me, cause theres times when i have a kid or a pet or a incredibly BOX of anything, and it'll happen. Its like my penis is WAITING for action and takes any pressure to my groin as a sign that im about to have sex. And i AM NOT THAT WAY, im not perverted, or nothing like that, i dont have attraction to kids, or pets, or boxes, in that manner, so i dont know what it is. Anyone else this way, or know why?

2nd. I dread the day i go to the doctor and have to get a physical, and/or getting physical with a girl, whenever that happens.
1. For the same reason as above in my first question.
2. Mine generally stays pretty flaccid or "turtling" as i like to call it, and its pretty much hiding out. Flaccid i'm maybe 3-4 (which is about the avg), erect at 7 maybe a little more. And i'm aware of that
1. Size doesn't really matter to a woman
2. 7 is a little above average

But its just kinda feels weird to see me at my, peak... for a lack of a better phrase. Or that the girl i love will give me the " aww how cute" expression, then of course, ill definitely not be able to hit my peak at 7. Ill be way to embarrased at that point lol.

I know other guys that go through that, but my first question is that one that im worried about the most.