Hello Aaron,
Welcome to this thread and the super people who post here and try to help others.
The best part of your post was to read that you will be seeing a neurologist tomorrow or Tuesday. That is a good start, though a long overdue one. It would be improper of me to second guess what your doctor will say regarding medication.
The neurologist will be asking about your pain, etc. Tell him/her what you have told us here plus any additional information you feel the doctor should know. AND ask the doctor the questions that are on your mind after your exam. I hope the neurologist takes an x-ray.
Regarding pain medication - First, I am not a doctor, however, I do have some thoughts regarding pain meds. Many of them can become addictive within a week or so. You can also get side effects from such medications. If your doctor does prescribe a pain medication at this time, ask him/her about the possible side effects.
Pain management doctors - When I first heard the terms about a year ago I had no idea what they did. From my experience, they try to reduce your pain by such means as epidural injections, physical therapy, and yes pain medication. I have a FANTASTIC PM doc. Because of him my back pain is much reduced and I can function fairly normally.
AND, do seek out the best neurologist/spinal surgeon that you can find in your area. It is always a good idea to get at least one "second opinion" in my opinion.
Hope all goes well, and do let us know how things go for you.
RichT