Hey, Im in need of some advice. i think of
strange things about tying people up and
beating and cutting them. Is this
behaviour normal??
I like to think about tying girls up
upside-down and covering them with water
and then eletrocuting them. i also enjoy
the thought of cutting their lower areas
and their breasts.
Please give me some advice!
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MiseEire
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Joined: 17 Jan 2008 Posts: 170
Posted: 02-03-08 08:57am
It doesn't actually sound normal. It's
common for people to have a minor element
of sadism in some of their fantasies but
what you describe sounds borderline
psychotic, no offense. Perhaps you should
see a shrink.
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Mikolas
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Posted: 02-03-08 11:17am
Tying girls down, ok, covering them wtih
water, ok, electrocuting them, no, cutting
their lower areas and breast, no.
Fetishes for light bdsm such as tying and
the like isn't uncommon, but cutting and
electrocuting are rather out there. Don't
act upon your fetishes unless you find a
quirky girl/guy who actually likes the
two.
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 662 Location: , Norn Iron
Posted: 02-03-08 21:23pm
basically sounds like very extreme
sadomasochistic fantasies. it is your
mind, you may explore it as you wish. i
get some pretty violent sexual fantasies
sometimes, too. but i would never EVER
act them out. I wouldn't even want to.
It stays strictly within my imagination.
as long as you do not harm another person
or feel strongly compelled to harm another
person then you have nothing to worry
about.
it should be noted that if you feel these
fantasies stop you from being able to get
on with your life, or if they stop you
from being able to have healthy
relationships etc then you can see a
therapist, but unless or until it comes to
that, it is not neccessary.
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JacobRyan
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Joined: 12 Dec 2007 Posts: 141 Location: Ohio,
Posted: 02-04-08 01:30am
Are these the only kinds of thoughts that
arouse you?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 02-04-08 21:52pm
If you are able to have these fantasies
and express them in a healthy way-
meaning, role playing (without any actual
injuries) porn, or just imagination/dirty
talk during sex, it's fine and really not
something you need to worry about.
If you are not able to have a normal sex
life- meaning, you actually want to and
have considered acting on these impulses
(actually hurting someone) and/or you
aren't able to have a normal relationship
or sex life, then it's more of a problem
and you might want to seek the help of
someone like a sex therapist.
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PlacidIntricacy
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Yeah.. Posted: 05-14-08 02:47am
lower area pain on girls is a weird thing
for me too. but its more like the thought
of kicking or hitting. not cutting. but
electricuting a poor girl. thats just
awful. ha.
i dunno man. kep it in your head. DONT
ELECTRICUTE ANYONE.
but yeah some girls out their dig pain, so
just find one who's like that.
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Dreadmuse
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Petersburg, fl usa
Posted: 05-16-08 08:34am
A few people here already asked the right
question, How consuming is this thought.
Does it interfere with your intimacy? Does
it effect your every day life?
If one cannot achieve satisfaction without
thier particular Fetish, then it would
indicate a Paraphillia. It is a very real
mental disorder and should be handled by
professionals.
Now, if this is only something that you do
pursue, I would recommend finding a group
that is into this sort of extreme play. DO
NOT try to do this on your own. At best,
you will just have a really bad scene. At
worst, you are another article about edge
play gone horribly wrong.
There are extreme safety measures that
must be taken in extreme edge play. You
should be fully trained by a competent and
experienced Dom. You should also be fully
trained in first aid and CPR.
Electricity play is very dangerous, but
not nearly as dangerous as cutting play.
I've never been big into either. So I
cannot offer much advise to you
personally.
The most important thing is to determine,
What about the fantasy becomes sexual to
you? Is it even a Sexual fantasy? I can
scene with anyone, and it is rarely
sexual. What about the scene makes it seem
enjoyable to you... how far would you want
the scene to go? When you think about it,
do you think about the outcomes? Have you
ever engaged in BDSM where you would have
been exposed to this?
Use common sense, if you find the fantasy
all consuming, get help. If it is not,
then you want to think about it. Be honest
with yourself and figure out the best and
safest steps for you.
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