Joined: 10 Dec 2006 Posts: 100 Location: Toronto, Ontario,
Depressed: Did I Make A Mistake? Posted: 02-01-08 20:55pm
Within the last 2-3 weeks I've been doing
a lot of thinking. Which is making me
depressed.
It all started when my cousins computer
crashed. I went to repair it, since I
know how to repair computer systems (to a
certain degree). I had problems with the
repair. So I got to talking with this one
guy I know in my personal finance college
class. Now he is in the Computer Systems
Technology course and I am in the Building
Renovation Technician course. I had
gotten acceptance into the Computer
Systems Technician course but turned it
down.
So I got my cousis system up and running.
And for the past 2-3 weeks me and this guy
have been talking computer talk. Thats
mostly the only thing we have in common.
I'm kinda having problems in the course
I'm in especially my reno class, which is
mostly group issues, not my work problems.
It makes me sad cause my group will yell
at me and then I feel like caca as well as
get pissed off.
So here I am thinking about all my
computer times and everything. And now
I'm wondering if I made a mistake or not,
for not taking the computer course. Its
making me depressed.
I love to do both things construction and
computer but all these thoughts in my
brain is just killing me.
Also my parents never acknowledge to
almost anyone that I am taking building
renovation they always say I'm doing
architectural technology.
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Birch
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Posted: 02-06-08 23:34pm
How old are you, if I may ask?
How would you describe your
self-confidence levels?
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jhade23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Feb 2008 Posts: 4
depressed Posted: 02-08-08 08:42am
well, it sounds like you've been thinking
alot like you said, i know when i think
too much or overthink something that too
can happen, am told i think too much and
that is where our problem lies true. But
can you change that, probably not it is
part of you. What can you do though? Well,
still regret not taking the class, then go
sign up for it again and take it this
time, I say you will never know unless you
try. Its okay if you're still not sure
which way to go, I've taken lots of
classes just to see if it fits me better,
I would like it or find it isn't really
for me. Or like some I know, just end up
doing both after all, two completely
different subjects. And others actually
graduate, find they hate it later while
working and go back to do another
different degree, and that too is okay,
because what matters is how do you feel
about it? If you are unhappy how it ended,
the good thing is YOU can ALWAYS change
it, that goes for any decision you make,
try it if it doesn't work for you then do
something else, don't kill yourself over
it day after day feeling miserable, it
will not get you anywhere. Of course
speaking from personal experience. About
parents, tell them what you want them to
know, rather correct them, and tell them
how it makes you feel when they don't
acknowledge you correctly. They too are
human, make mistakes just like us, and am
sure they want nothing but your complete
happiness in anything you do no matter
what or how you end up, just be happy with
it. Good luck to you.
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greekjohn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2006 Posts: 100 Location: Toronto, Ontario,
Posted: 02-08-08 13:11pm
Birch
wrote:
How old are you, if I may
ask?
How would you describe your
self-confidence
levels?