discovered things bout BFs ex,shocked and a little worried Posted: 02-01-08 20:10pm
I had had problems with this girl back in
July of last year. She had found my BF on
myspace and kept trying to hang out with
him. She was so weird, saying one story
and then another. I fixed that problem so
to speak.lol
Now I usually go onto another forum and I
saw her screenname and out of curiosity I
cheked the profile and tada!! It was her.
I read some of her posts and there is one
that worries me so much.
Shè was asking help on something...her
current boyfriend she met when she was 13.
She says she cheated on him 5 times. She
is 19 now. She had a kid when she was 17
She met my boyfriend when she was 15!! So
she cheated on her guy wit the guy who is
currently my boyfriend.
Meaning she played her guy when she was 15
and wit my BF.(she says they went out for
a year and a half...my boyfriend says only
1year) 2 years later she has a kid. I look
at the kid and it looks nothing like my
boyfriend. But I'm just disgusted and
surprised at how she came to me all angry
and defensive. Now I know why!
When My boyfriend was in the military at
18
he even asked her if she was cheating on
him. And the promiscuous person said no.
Now I know the truth. She was with both of
them at the same time, using my boyfriend
to cheat on hers. But I'm not going to
tell my boyfriend cause this was years
ago. I would rather have it fester in her
concious than start something unnecessary.
And I felt bad confronting her! Lmao not
anymore!!
But I am so shocked and surprised. She has
the balls to say she's a changed
woman?lmao she is no woman no matter if
she has a kid. Having a kid doesn't make
you a woman. All the replies she got on
that topic were either hostile or helpful
towards her, and she just replied angryly
to the people that were trying to help her
see things
So I don't think its even necessary to let
my boyfriend kno that she did cheat on him
while he was in the military. But what do
you guys think?
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mominashoe
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Posted: 02-03-08 15:30pm
If he's not having contact on her anymore
and you two are going steady, there's no
reason why you need to bring up something
from the past that he doesn't need to know
about.....that's over and done with.
Unless he wants to keep talking about some
fond memories of her or something and it
makes you ill because you know that she
wasn't faithful or..... If he was to
break up with you and try going out with
her again or something, then yes he would
need to know about her duplicity.
The best thing to do is to move on and
forget about her.
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ladyT02
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Posted: 02-04-08 02:54am
That's exactly was I was thinking there's no need to
bring it up cause she already had caused
some tension between me and my boyfriend
in the past. We both know she lied cause
she gave him one story and me another.
But to each his own and even tho I don't
like her, or know her, I really hope she
grows up for her the sake of her kid.
Thanks mominashoe
there's no need to
bring it up cause she already had caused
some tension between me and my boyfriend
in the past. We both know she lied cause
she gave him one story and me another.
