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Q: Blow Job ideas

asked by: AlexxFlammablee on January 30th, 2008

New User

so i have been dating this guy for 2 months
he goes down on me and we also have sex but im scared to go down on him.
he knows this and doesnt ever ask or force me to but yet he still likes to go down on me.
i feel bad because im not returning the favor.
im scared i dont want to mess up or do something embarrasing.
can you give me a few pointers or tips or anything.

Replies(31)

Electriceyes

replied on January 30th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Just don't bite.. you won't be the best at it right away and he'll understand that. You need practice to get ok at it. Don't worry.. If he wants you to stop he'll tell you.

Like I said, Just don't bite and you should be fine Smile

AlexxFlammablee

replied on January 31st, 2008

New User

THANK YOU =]

rooted

replied on January 31st, 2008

Supporter

Breathe in and out through your nose. If you try to breathe through your mouth, you might gag (I do). And start out with your hands around his member. Have you given him a hand job yet?

Georgia59

replied on January 31st, 2008

Especially eHealthy

You can't really do it wrong, that's for sure. As long as you don't hurt him. It might help if you take it slow, start with your hands, then use your mouth to explore his chest, stomach, knees, thighs, etc, until you feel ready (this might take a few nights).

AlexxFlammablee

replied on February 1st, 2008

New User

no i havent given him a handjob but we have had sex.
im more comfortable to do that then to messup and do those two things wrong.

anniek

replied on February 1st, 2008

Experienced User

I was there at one time. He'll understand if you don't do something right and probably tell you what you can do better.
Just be carefull not to drag your teeth and only go as far as you feel comfortable! Good luck!

Tylanas

replied on February 1st, 2008

Especially eHealthy

PenguinsRus wrote:

horny13 wrote:

Since this is a blowjob forum. I was wondering. Im 13 years old and my penis is 6.5 inches. Is that big for my age? would it be to much to suck on?

6 1/2 inches is the average size for a penis, so you're pretty much right on track.

Actually 5.5 is average.

Tylanas

replied on February 1st, 2008

Especially eHealthy

AlexxFlammablee wrote:

no i havent given him a handjob but we have had sex.
im more comfortable to do that then to messup and do those two things wrong.

Trust me, it's hard to do oral wrong!!

Explore his penis; don't ever bother with deep-throating, it's useless. And as you get more comfortable, yes you can try a little bit of teeth!!

The biggest, most important tip is to pay attention to HIM and his reactions.

michelle1981

replied on February 1st, 2008

Supporter

Has he ever had a blowjob by anyone? If he has, you can ask him what he likes.

michelle1981

replied on February 2nd, 2008

Supporter

I think she should stick to the basics at first... no added sugar Wink

When she's comfortable enough, and gets the hang of it, maybe then she could add chocolate.

orthogirl

replied on February 2nd, 2008

Experienced User

yeah, sucking a penis is just that. it's not extremely complex. when i sucked a penis for the first time i didn't need any pointers. watch a porn or 2 and you'll get the concept. as long as your mouth is on it i'm sure the guy won't be complaining.

Tylanas

replied on February 2nd, 2008

Especially eHealthy

Can you believe I actually had to cajole my ex into letting me see him flaccid and take it into my mouth? It was one of my fantasies; to feel it get bigger!

orthogirl

replied on February 2nd, 2008

Experienced User

oo seeing it grow right in front of you is awesome.

Katrinadoodle

replied on February 3rd, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Get your tonsils removed, it helps Laughing

But seriously, it's REALLY hard to mess it up Very Happy

As long as his penis is in your mouth, he's good.

I actually get turned on by having him tell me what he wants me to do... more teeth, tongue, etc Wink

lele25

replied on February 3rd, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

Watch a porno and practice on a popsicle to see what your limits are. Just be careful about the teeth....sometimes my hubby likes a little nibble but I'v encountered other guys that aren't very into that. Make sure to discuss with him where he's going to cum because you don't want to be caught off guard. Ask him to guide you and tell you what feels good.

Katrinadoodle

replied on February 4th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

Be careful about grabbing his balls, Jacob HATES that. It's a mega-turn off for some guys. Some guys really like it though.

Tylanas

replied on February 4th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

Yeah, I've only got experience with one sexual partner but from what I did with him and what I've heard, most guys like their scrotum to be fondled. The skin is equivalent to the labia of a woman's vulva so it is very sensitive.

MyLove4U

replied on February 16th, 2008

New User

oh one tip that my friend told me before i did the first time, wet your lips and kinda bite on your lips. for the guys that would hate teeth this should be best. it is a little hard to do but it works once you got it down. and don't worry about messing up down there. you can't do much damage, just don't bite.

Little Miss Oops

replied on February 18th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

Georgia59 wrote:

this is what i did... it worked lol. the only thing i messed up on was when he was ready for sex i kinda accidently nipped him at an angle like when i was pulling my mouth off at an angle the very tip of his member brushed my teeth and he was like "BABY DON'T DO THAT!!!" lol i felt horrible i was like "I'm sorry!!!" then it was forgotten lol

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