achieving orgasm erotic sex Posted: 01-30-08 00:08am
Ok here is the dilemma I have been
dating/having sex with my g/f for about 5
years however, she can't seem to achieve
an orgasm off sex alone. I have tried it
all relaxing, diff. positions, etc. I
wanted to know how many women experience
this problem. If anyone else has sound
advice please comment.
Also, how do women feel about swallowing
their b/f's big "O" after sex (the whole
porno facial). I kind of like the porno
style erotic sex%u2026. finishing with a
facial. Is this just common in pornos or
do many people feel the same way
(regardless of how long your dating
relationship has been)??? This may be a
little much for some but thanks for the
help.
Thanks
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 01-30-08 15:53pm
I think that only around 20% of women can
orgasm through sexual intercourse alone.
It is actually very common. As for porno
facials, you will have to ask your
girlfriend about that. That is all about
personal preference.
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run4life10
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Posted: 01-31-08 22:57pm
yup, most women can't orgasm just from
sex... have you tried stimulating her
clitoris while you're having sex?
as for the whole porno facial thing, i
personally think it's really demeaning,
but some women get off on it too. i don't
mind getting it in my mouth, or getting
some on me in the heat of the moment, but
i think for the guy to just be like "i'm
gonna come all over you because i enjoy
it"... that's really disrespectful and
demeaning. but again, just my personal
opinion. some women enjoy it
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Mesmer7
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hypnosis may be able to help Posted: 09-21-08 14:21pm
I've heard that most women don't orgasm
from intercourse alone, but those of us in
the erotic hypnosis community have found
ways to help women become more responsive.
We've shared stories among our community
of making women orgasm on command, while
giving head, while having their breasts
played with.
-Daniel
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worrywart01
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Posted: 09-21-08 22:23pm
yea i agree..i'm not into the whole going
all over my face thing..as the other women
have said..i just find it demeaning...my
boyfriend never has, and never will
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greenr702
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Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Posts: 17 Location: City Of Sin, NV
Posted: 09-26-08 14:08pm
a vibrating "penis ring" does
wonders...she has the intercoarse
stimulation and the vibrations on her
cliterous. the orgasim she may have
might be just enough for her to drop to
her knees and shower her self w/
your...ahem
Reading a womans perspective on the
facial...i can see how that would be
demeaning...personally...if a woman is
capable of "squirting" her womanly
goodness all over my face- I will eagerly
take it.
one of the girls i am playing with right
now, said i can blow my load on her
breasts- but not on her face...when some
got on her cheek "by accident" she didnt
freak out...eventually she was controlling
it and gave her self a facial...TOTALLY
depends on the lady!!
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lolo2006
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Posted: 09-26-08 14:30pm
i dont know bout other women but i am able
to have multiple orgasmis just about every
time. It really depends on the foreplay,
the postition, and how much she really is
in to it. Try some roleplay...like u being
a burglar hiding in the house or many
others...or try going to a place u usually
wouldnt have sex like a parking lot.. with
the thrill of getting caught will help her
orgasim. About the whole facial thing it
really depends on the woman..i wouldnt do
it because to me it is kind of demaning
unless he asked and i agreed...but i never
would. ask her bout it.
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greenr702
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Joined: 24 Sep 2008 Posts: 17 Location: City Of Sin, NV
Posted: 09-26-08 14:38pm
There are so many places out in public to
do "it" i live in Las Vegas, and went
to Cali to do the 6 Flags theme park
thing...as we were driving back into
vegas...we pulled off the freeway and went
at it in her convertable, while traffic
was passing us...it was amazing...to know
that a thousand or so cars driving north
on the I-15 could have seen us goin at
it.
hell take her to your work- or go to hers-
find some where. i do construction- up in
the heavy machinery- Loaders and Back
Hoes...wearing the safety vest and hard
hat... role playing def works!!!
im gonna have to get me a black ski mask
and try that burglary thing lol
