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Q: achieving orgasm erotic sex
asked by: 569 on January 30th, 2008
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Ok here is the dilemma I have been dating/having sex with my g/f for about 5 years however, she can't seem to achieve an orgasm off sex alone. I have tried it all relaxing, diff. positions, etc. I wanted to know how many women experience this problem. If anyone else has sound advice please comment.

Also, how do women feel about swallowing their b/f's big "O" after sex (the whole porno facial). I kind of like the porno style erotic sex…. finishing with a facial. Is this just common in pornos or do many people feel the same way (regardless of how long your dating relationship has been)??? This may be a little much for some but thanks for the help.


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SamanthaM
replied on January 30th, 2008
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I think that only around 20% of women can orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. It is actually very common. As for porno facials, you will have to ask your girlfriend about that. That is all about personal preference.
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run4life10
replied on January 31st, 2008
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yup, most women can't orgasm just from sex... have you tried stimulating her clitoris while you're having sex?

as for the whole porno facial thing, i personally think it's really demeaning, but some women get off on it too. i don't mind getting it in my mouth, or getting some on me in the heat of the moment, but i think for the guy to just be like "i'm gonna come all over you because i enjoy it"... that's really disrespectful and demeaning. but again, just my personal opinion. some women enjoy it
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Mesmer7
replied on September 21st, 2008
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hypnosis may be able to help
I've heard that most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone, but those of us in the erotic hypnosis community have found ways to help women become more responsive. We've shared stories among our community of making women orgasm on command, while giving head, while having their breasts played with.

-Daniel
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worrywart01
replied on September 21st, 2008
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yea i agree..i'm not into the whole going all over my face thing..as the other women have said..i just find it demeaning...my boyfriend never has, and never will
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greenr702
replied on September 26th, 2008
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a vibrating "penis ring" does wonders...she has the intercoarse stimulation and the vibrations on her cliterous. the orgasim she may have might be just enough for her to drop to her knees and shower her self w/ your...ahem

Reading a womans perspective on the facial...i can see how that would be demeaning...personally...if a woman is capable of "squirting" her womanly goodness all over my face- I will eagerly take it.

one of the girls i am playing with right now, said i can blow my load on her breasts- but not on her face...when some got on her cheek "by accident" she didnt freak out...eventually she was controlling it and gave her self a facial...TOTALLY depends on the lady!!
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lolo2006
replied on September 26th, 2008
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i dont know bout other women but i am able to have multiple orgasmis just about every time. It really depends on the foreplay, the postition, and how much she really is in to it. Try some roleplay...like u being a burglar hiding in the house or many others...or try going to a place u usually wouldnt have sex like a parking lot.. with the thrill of getting caught will help her orgasim. About the whole facial thing it really depends on the woman..i wouldnt do it because to me it is kind of demaning unless he asked and i agreed...but i never would. ask her bout it.
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greenr702
replied on September 26th, 2008
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There are so many places out in public to do "it" i live in Las Vegas, and went to Cali to do the 6 Flags theme park thing...as we were driving back into vegas...we pulled off the freeway and went at it in her convertable, while traffic was passing us...it was amazing...to know that a thousand or so cars driving north on the I-15 could have seen us goin at it.

hell take her to your work- or go to hers- find some where. i do construction- up in the heavy machinery- Loaders and Back Hoes...wearing the safety vest and hard hat... role playing def works!!!

im gonna have to get me a black ski mask and try that burglary thing lol
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