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Q: fetish ruining friendship

asked by: tomo359 on January 26th, 2008

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I am a 17 year old boy and i have some weird fetishes, one being seeing men being knocked unconcious with chloroform and other methods. I have never done it in real lie, just watched it in videos but for some reason it turns me on.
Anyway, my friend acidently found out about my fetish today and now she is taking it really bad and said she is scared and now i'm really worried i have lost my best friend. I have tried explaining that its only a fetish and i would never do anything to her but then she just went offline (on msn messenger).
I really don't want to lose her as she is my best friend, or at least i thought she was. Can anyone help me, i really don't know what to do, its so horrible having someone who is scared of you. I don't know what to do, my life is horrible enough as it is but this has just made it a million times worse. Please help. Crying or Very sad

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marvel

replied on January 27th, 2008

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There's nothing you can do about a 'best friend' not approving of something you do safely. As long as you don't do it to an unconsenting person, there's nothing wrong. A best friend would realise that.

tomo359

replied on January 29th, 2008

New User

Thank you, that is what i have tried telling her but she doesn't seem to understand, i guess she wasn't as good a friend as i thought.

Jasmine86

replied on January 29th, 2008

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I personally think it's really strange that she would be so "weirded out" by it, to go as far as not wanting to be your friend! It seems ridiculous to me! Maybe in time she'll just forget about it and it'll blow over. Also, you said it was on MSN Messenger that she was ignoring you; maybe in person she'll react differently. I've had that happen to me before.
Good luck!

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