This is completely normal. Only 1 out of 10 women experience a vaginal orgasm during sex.

You should try touching your clit while you are having sex in a position that is comfortable for you to reach there (or have him do it for you!)

Are you able to orgasm by masturbation or oral stimulation?

I never had an orgasm until I was 27 years old even though I had been married first at the age of 17 and then to my true husband at 23. He was always wonderful and loving and until a time when I really allowed myself to give myself to him completely did it happen. It was great.

I agree that clitoral stimulation while having sex can get you there pretty quickly. Just be patient with yourself and for goodness sakes! Don't give up on love and sex. They are two of the most beautiful gifts God has given to us.

Its completly normal! and you may still be able to. It takes practice and sex is to be enjoyed between two people that care about and accept one another. Even if you dont orgasm during intercourse you can still enjoy making love it still feels good I can not orgasm from sex either but still enjoy it very much.
Have you ever had any orgasm? Then you at least know you can and maybe just need some more practice with positioning, relaxing that sort of thing. Dont refrain from going further in a relationship because of this. You could miss out on love. A man is not going to care and would be more than happy to have lots of fun trying with you. If you enjoy it then he will be happy too even if your not orgasming. Hope that helps. :p

I've never had an orgasm during sex without touching my clitoris; that's the only kind of orgasm I can have!

Ironically it was only a couple years ago where medical science was arguing over the existence of multiple forms of orgasm in women. So here people are just getting used to the idea of more then one kind of orgasm and I come along and announce that there are five potential variations of orgasm in women that I have discovered SO FAR.

I am NOT a doctor, so I can not claim to have research data to support this.

But, I have had friends watch me perform special massage techniques on many women that have generated some or all 5 of these forms of orgasms. There are probably hundreds of variations of this because their are so many different physiologies to females. But, the majority of women that have experienced this have had at least 3 definitive (different) orgasms.

I am not one of those "Joe Stud" guys that prowls bars and picks up women. In fact, if you saw me you would consider me average in most ways. However, I have studied Tantra, physiology and human sexuality for over 20 years as an avocation and an enhancement to my lifestyle.

I am you see, one of those weird fringe people called "swingers. As a part of our lifestyle, we include sex as an expression of enjoyment between friends. So, I have had many many sexual partners over the last 20 years.

And yes, I do practice what I believe is a very good formula of safe se, as NONE of my friends has ever had an STD.

I have been posting on the Internet for many years that there is a series of connected nerve tissue bundles that I call the "Vaginal A", that are inside a womans vagina and also connect to the clitoris. By tracing the "A" you will discover a series of interconnected hot spots, any of them capable of generating arousal and several capable of creating orgasm.

Many women encourage their husbands to experiment with swinging because of their general dissatisfaction with sex and orgasm. Not only have I had the pleasure of enjoying the swing lifestyle, but I do find great satisfaction in teaching couples these techniques to learn how to improve their own enjoyment of sex.

I wish more doctors were concerned about female orgasm, because I think if women were happier with sex, a lot more marriages would stay intact. I say this because sadly, men are pretty clueless when it comes to pleasing a woman.

I have had a number of women been referred to me over the years and the secret to understanding female orgasm is threefold: patience, empathy and understanding that the most important female sex orgasm is the brain.

With this understanding, and a partner who is willing to invest the time, almost all women should be able to have intense orgasms of multiple source, including from conventional missionary position sexual intercourse.

I hope that by this post some MD might just be curious enough to find out what THEY DON'T KNOW

i am 23 and i can orgasm during masturbation in 5 seconds flat but when it comes to oral or intercourse with my man or any man before him i feel absolutly nothing,men just orgasm automatically whether they want to or not and women have to go into all this spiritual stuff before they can feel anything,it sucks! and a womens life is in no way fair compared to a mans!as u can see im am very bitter on the subject.Dont get me wrong i love men and i love to have sex and i love the way it makes me feel but i want to get psychical pleasure from it as well.i occasionally get turned on and even then when i have sex that feeling just goes and once again i am stuck with nothing and he gets it all,its been the same with any man and has been the cause of some splits in my life,i have been with my partner im with now for 2 years and i havent orgasmed once! doesnt matter how long we do it for or which way we do it in it just wont happen for me! i think its about time there was some medication made for women like me.

Gloo.

I had the same feelings and thought just like Bitterhoney. My husband had tryed so many times in making me have an orgasm. I sometime feel embarass and pretend as it I'm having or enjoying it. on the other hand, I enjoys mastarbation and it makes me have a feeling which of cause no man had ever given me. Will this change?