My girlfriend and I want to get married. Not only because we're having a baby together, but we love each other and have been together for a little over 2 years now.
Now I'm expecting this child to be mine. In fact, if it isn't, I'll be heartbroken. If I get married and it turns out the child isn't mine, they'll go after me for child support, because my name would go on the birth certificate and I would be presumed as the father.
And if I don't get married and if the child is mine ( hopefully ), then they'll go after me for child support, since we aren't living together or married.
I'm not trying to get out of paying for my son (((((( yes we had the ultrasound the 16th. early than we thought and it turns out we're having a boy! =]. )))) but I rather support my son along the way rather than lump sums out of the paycheck.
And my girlfriend is on medic aid and WIC. Is it true that they'll make me remberse them for all the money of the birth care cost, doctor cost. Basically, thousands of dollars? Because that would kind of defeat the purpose of MEDIC AID.
Thanks for reading!!


