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Q: finding a good day care
asked by: Lalee on January 24th, 2008
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I have a 17-month-old son who I've stayed at home with since the day he was born. Now I'm looking to go back to work, and I need to find daycare for him.

The problem is that I'm SO overwhelmed with all the daycare centers and facilities in my area. Unfortunately, I've only lived here a year and don't really know many people, so I can't ask around for references. We did get one reference, but the waitlist for his age group starts when the mom is 6 months pregnant. Obviously, he couldn't get in.

I'm completely paranoid about putting him in someone else's care. I know millions of children go to daycare every day and are just fine, but it still freaks me out and all I can think of is "How sanitary are those places?" "Are the caregivers caring enough?" "Is the security good?" "Is the equipment safe?" and all the things I can imagine going wrong.

But I digress...

I guess what I'm looking for here is some guidance on how to go about finding a good place for him. Should I be looking at chains, or are they not intimate enough? I feel like home daycares with small numbers of children would be nice but I'm not sure I'd trust it as much. I tried looking at the state's DSS site for ratings on daycares, but I couldn't get any real specific information.
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I worked in a day care and I've been a nanny. I must tell you that I preferred being a nanny.

I worked with 18-24 month olds for a chain day care (Rocking Horse in Northern Virginia in the 1990's) and I remember catching colds and viruses, watching co-dependent colleagues get into really weird dynamics with the kids, and generally falling into the rut of the center's routine. I do think that it's great for a toddler's socialisation skills, but a day care is a little too rote for my taste.

On the other hand, as a nanny, I came into the family's house and spent time in the kids environment. The kids were older (8 and 11) but I'd say it wouldn't matter much. I found the family through a local classified ad and the mother, who is an attorney, interviewed 5 candidates and ran background checks on everyone before choosing me.

I'd recommend that you consider the last option. You can exert much more influence over what happens, and you can always check in anytime you want.

BTW- both jobs paid the same for me!
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