My boyfriend and I are both bigger people
and we have sex often. We've had sex
probably 100 or more times, and I've only
been on top two times. The only two times
were also because I had a lot of alcohol
in my system. He always complains that I
don't do any work, but it's because I'm
nervous and don't really know what to do
because before I met him I had only had
sex about 5 times. What exactly do I do
and where do I place my arms and legs and
such? Any ideas to make this easier on me?
Please!! Any help will do.
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PixieKat
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2007 Posts: 201 Location: UT,
Posted: 01-24-08 05:55am
Ive only had sex on top with my current
bf, so i dont know how other people do it.
But my fav is just having him lay down and
me sitting on him with my knees on the
ground and slide forward and back (twards
his head, than back to his feet) i put my
hands where ever i feel is most
comfrotable at the time, sometimes on his
shoulders or on the ground, or just let
them hang lol. occasionaly ill just move
up and down... im not sure if that does
much for him or not, but the first one is
the only way i can orgasm while having sex
so i like that the best lol.
You could always ask him what he likes, or
as him what he wants you to do, thats how
i found out about what my guy likes me to
do on top, because i had no clue what to
do lol
Hope i could help alittle
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unnamedny
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2007 Posts: 88 Location: New York, USA
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Posted: 01-24-08 07:51am
It all depends on the way he likes it. I
can tell you what some of us don't like.
Don't jump too hard you can hurt his
balls. Some guys don't like hair in their
face, personally I don't mind as long as
my girlfriend does not move her head too
much and her hair are not moving around my
face too much.
Some guys love when girl kisses them in
this position. It's also pleasurable
because your body mass is spread around so
it's not like all the mass at one point.
You can aways ask him to put his arms
around your butt and guide you a little
bit.
