Can't keep erection for sex Posted: 01-23-08 23:05pm
Hey.
I'm 18, and I've been with my girlfriend
for about 2 months , and we started to
(try) having sex.
During everything else we did, hand and
blow jobs and everything, my penis worked
perfectly fine.
But the minute I put on the condom, or the
minute i get inside her, i lose my boner.
This has never happened to me before in my
sexual life.
It's obviously from psychological
reasons...
I am pretty much attracted to my
girlfriend, but I'm not 100% sure about
this relationship and having doubts about
it.
I also told her I loved her when I really
don't...
She's a very horny girl, and this
relationship is pretty much based on sex.
So how could the sex not even work ??
These occasions really low my sexual
confidence, and it drives me crazy.
Please help,
Thanks ahead.
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stickyicky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 151 Location: jacksonville, tx usa
Posted: 01-23-08 23:10pm
Are you sure the condom is not too small?
It could be cutting off the circulation to
your penis... causing your penis to go
limp... especially since everything is
going fine otherwise sexually-wise.
You should re-consider telling her you
love her if you don't.
And you shouldn't do anything you don't
wanna do.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-23-08 23:11pm
Maybe this relationship isn't right for
you. If you've already had doubts, and now
your body is reflecting that doubt, maybe
that's a sign to seriously stop, think,
and reconsider dating this girl. You
should never have to lie when you say "I
love you". I've said "thank you" before
when I wasn't ready to say "I love you"
back to someone who said it to me! "I
know" also works.
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unnamedny
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Posted: 01-23-08 23:35pm
This is just anxiety, trust me you are not
the only who it's happened with. Just
don't make it drive you crazy, all you
need to do is to get used to her a little
more.
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kindnessforpeople
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2008 Posts: 1 Location: league city , tx usa
Posted: 01-25-08 23:38pm
maybe the condom is removing contact with
nerves of the penis. your penis may not be
that sensitive due to all the mouth and
hand job action. Maybe you need to take a
break, and take walk on the beach to
discuss your life and future together and
how you feel towards her and how she feels
towards you . Let your true feelings be
known with your lover.
