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phone sex Posted: 01-23-08 19:01pm
whoa...last night, my boyfriend and I were
talking on the phone..
well we were kinda talking dirty on the
phone.then he was asking if I'm TURNED
on......[[well I was?!]]then he said that
I was WET?!...
well I know that he WANTS me!.....
cause I can sense it in hiw
voice!......
omg......
stupid me..I was a NERVE-WRECK!.....
for some reason..when he talks to me
*dirty*...I like it...but also nervous..
and it show's that I'm nervous...he just
laughs at me.....
it's cute to him...but it's making me go
crazy!....
I"m still a virgin...and no guy ever made
me feel like this?????....
should I be scared/nervous,when we talk
about these things?
or should I just dont care what he thinks
and just tell him what's on my mind?
I guess I'm to0 scared to show him that I
do like it.....
cause everyone knows me as a
sweet,sensitive girl!....
I've actually never showed that side of
me!
omg?
should I start showing that side?!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-23-08 19:41pm
When should you talk about these things?
Right now!! If you're not ready for sex
then he needs to know that asap. Talk to
him. Communication is SO IMPORTANT in a
healthy relationship! How old are you? If
you're still in highschool then quite
frankly you have no business having sex.
Focus on your classes: you do not need the
stress of Sexually Transmitted Disease or
PREGNANCY!!! Sex is a bad idea when you're
not educated or prepared.
Yes, it's okay to talk dirty back and let
him know that you like it, but you need to
make it clear that you're not giving up
something as precious as your virginity to
anyone just yet. I'm not saying you have
to wait until marriage, but PLEASE wait
until you are older, say in college. Even
then many people are not prepared to deal
with the consequences of sex. I don't want
to see you on here in a few weeks crying
"OMG I mite b pregnate!"
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-23-08 20:34pm
Eiri
wrote:
When should you talk about
these things? Right now!! If you're not
ready for sex then he needs to know that
asap. Talk to him. Communication is SO
IMPORTANT in a healthy relationship! How
old are you? If you're still in highschool
then quite frankly you have no business
having sex. Focus on your classes: you do
not need the stress of Sexually
Transmitted Disease or PREGNANCY!!! Sex is
a bad idea when you're not educated or
prepared.
Yes, it's okay to talk dirty back and let
him know that you like it, but you need to
make it clear that you're not giving up
something as precious as your virginity to
anyone just yet. I'm not saying you have
to wait until marriage, but PLEASE wait
until you are older, say in college. Even
then many people are not prepared to deal
with the consequences of sex. I don't want
to see you on here in a few weeks crying
"OMG I mite b
pregnate!"
thanx for the advie...but I"m not in
higschool....I'm 18.I just graduated..but
my boyfriend's a senior right now......
I know that communication is very
important..and I do enjoy talking about
these things..but I get nervouse now..even
before I"m gonna call him, or
something.......
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-23-08 20:37pm
Well from your typing and whatnot, you
sounded about 12. Remember, we have no
idea how old you are, and we have to go
off of what we read!! Still maturity-wise
I don't think you are ready for sex, again
based off of what you have communicated to
us here.
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-23-08 22:14pm
Eiri
wrote:
Well from your typing and
whatnot, you sounded about 12. Remember,
we have no idea how old you are, and we
have to go off of what we read!! Still
maturity-wise I don't think you are ready
for sex, again based off of what you have
communicated to us
here.
it may sound like I'm not...or Idk...
but I want to though......I think...
I mean...my boyfriend wants me to be
comfortable and open with him.....
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 01-23-08 22:17pm
there is nothing wrong with talking about
sex to your bf? and it doesnt make u a bad
person if you like sex.....
and you do sound like you are 12, so i
dont think you are ready for sex either.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-23-08 23:52pm
Your profile says that your 22 not 18.
Also, I have read/responded to some of
your other posts and I have definitely
picked up on your immature tone. I don't
think that you are ready for sex with this
guy especially considering the brief time
that you've known him. Also are you saying
that he's a senior in high school or
college? I don't see the harm in talking
to him dirty as long as it doesn't lead to
anything further in the near future.
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-24-08 01:29am
winter_child
wrote:
there is nothing wrong with
talking about sex to your bf? and it
doesnt make u a bad person if you like
sex.....
and you do sound like you are 12, so i
dont think you are ready for sex
either.
well I'm not 12 years old....
maybe I aint ready for that.....
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crazyinluvwitchu
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
Posted: 01-24-08 01:30am
lele25
wrote:
Your profile says that your
22 not 18. Also, I have read/responded to
some of your other posts and I have
definitely picked up on your immature
tone. I don't think that you are ready for
sex with this guy especially considering
the brief time that you've known him. Also
are you saying that he's a senior in high
school or college? I don't see the harm in
talking to him dirty as long as it doesn't
lead to anything further in the near
future.
ok..maybe I'm over-reacting with this
whole nerve-wrecking thingy....
or maybe I aint ready for this
yet..Idk?..but thanx anywaiz for the
advices....
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-24-08 10:26am
I think you're not ready. You will not be
this nervous when you are ready You will WANT it,
100%.
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Jimster010
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Posted: 01-24-08 23:22pm
Phone sex!
Talking about sex is great, even if two
people talk dirty to each other,
at least one of them could get sexually
aroused. It's like if you talk about
sex to your boyfriend or girlfriend, one
of you would maybe have a sudden
urge to have sex!
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Posted: 01-25-08 00:03am
Jimster010
wrote:
Phone sex!
Talking about sex is great, even if two
people talk dirty to each other,
at least one of them could get sexually
aroused. It's like if you talk about
sex to your boyfriend or girlfriend, one
of you would maybe have a sudden
urge to have
sex!
so you're saying that *it is a good thing
to talk about it?*...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-25-08 13:45pm
Of course.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 01-25-08 15:48pm
Yes its a good thing. I think it will help
you get more comfortable for when you
actually start having sex.
It was really important to my boyfriend
that I could openly talk about sex. He
seemed to think that if I didn't like
talking about it then I wasn't fully
comfortable doing it yet, and that really
bothered him.
omg......
You will WANT it,
100%.
