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Q: phone sex
asked by: crazyinluvwitchu on January 23rd, 2008
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whoa...last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone..
well we were kinda talking dirty on the phone.then he was asking if I'm TURNED on......[[well I was?!]]then he said that I was WET?!...
well I know that he WANTS me!.....
cause I can sense it in hiw voice!......
Embarassed omg......
stupid me..I was a NERVE-WRECK!.....
for some reason..when he talks to me *dirty*...I like it...but also nervous..
and it show's that I'm nervous...he just laughs at me.....
it's cute to him...but it's making me go crazy!....
I"m still a virgin...and no guy ever made me feel like this?????....
should I be scared/nervous,when we talk about these things?
or should I just dont care what he thinks and just tell him what's on my mind?
I guess I'm to0 scared to show him that I do like it.....
cause everyone knows me as a sweet,sensitive girl!....
I've actually never showed that side of me!
omg?
should I start showing that side?!
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Tylanas
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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When should you talk about these things? Right now!! If you're not ready for sex then he needs to know that asap. Talk to him. Communication is SO IMPORTANT in a healthy relationship! How old are you? If you're still in highschool then quite frankly you have no business having sex. Focus on your classes: you do not need the stress of Sexually Transmitted Disease or PREGNANCY!!! Sex is a bad idea when you're not educated or prepared.

Yes, it's okay to talk dirty back and let him know that you like it, but you need to make it clear that you're not giving up something as precious as your virginity to anyone just yet. I'm not saying you have to wait until marriage, but PLEASE wait until you are older, say in college. Even then many people are not prepared to deal with the consequences of sex. I don't want to see you on here in a few weeks crying "OMG I mite b pregnate!"
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crazyinluvwitchu
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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Eiri wrote:
When should you talk about these things? Right now!! If you're not ready for sex then he needs to know that asap. Talk to him. Communication is SO IMPORTANT in a healthy relationship! How old are you? If you're still in highschool then quite frankly you have no business having sex. Focus on your classes: you do not need the stress of Sexually Transmitted Disease or PREGNANCY!!! Sex is a bad idea when you're not educated or prepared.

Yes, it's okay to talk dirty back and let him know that you like it, but you need to make it clear that you're not giving up something as precious as your virginity to anyone just yet. I'm not saying you have to wait until marriage, but PLEASE wait until you are older, say in college. Even then many people are not prepared to deal with the consequences of sex. I don't want to see you on here in a few weeks crying "OMG I mite b pregnate!"



thanx for the advie...but I"m not in higschool....I'm 18.I just graduated..but my boyfriend's a senior right now......
I know that communication is very important..and I do enjoy talking about these things..but I get nervouse now..even before I"m gonna call him, or something.......
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Tylanas
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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Well from your typing and whatnot, you sounded about 12. Remember, we have no idea how old you are, and we have to go off of what we read!! Still maturity-wise I don't think you are ready for sex, again based off of what you have communicated to us here.
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crazyinluvwitchu
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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Eiri wrote:
Well from your typing and whatnot, you sounded about 12. Remember, we have no idea how old you are, and we have to go off of what we read!! Still maturity-wise I don't think you are ready for sex, again based off of what you have communicated to us here.



it may sound like I'm not...or Idk...
but I want to though......I think...
I mean...my boyfriend wants me to be comfortable and open with him.....
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Flurries in the air
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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there is nothing wrong with talking about sex to your bf? and it doesnt make u a bad person if you like sex.....

and you do sound like you are 12, so i dont think you are ready for sex either.
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lele25
replied on January 23rd, 2008
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Your profile says that your 22 not 18. Also, I have read/responded to some of your other posts and I have definitely picked up on your immature tone. I don't think that you are ready for sex with this guy especially considering the brief time that you've known him. Also are you saying that he's a senior in high school or college? I don't see the harm in talking to him dirty as long as it doesn't lead to anything further in the near future.
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crazyinluvwitchu
replied on January 24th, 2008
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winter_child wrote:
there is nothing wrong with talking about sex to your bf? and it doesnt make u a bad person if you like sex.....

and you do sound like you are 12, so i dont think you are ready for sex either.



well I'm not 12 years old....
maybe I aint ready for that.....
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crazyinluvwitchu
replied on January 24th, 2008
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lele25 wrote:
Your profile says that your 22 not 18. Also, I have read/responded to some of your other posts and I have definitely picked up on your immature tone. I don't think that you are ready for sex with this guy especially considering the brief time that you've known him. Also are you saying that he's a senior in high school or college? I don't see the harm in talking to him dirty as long as it doesn't lead to anything further in the near future.



ok..maybe I'm over-reacting with this whole nerve-wrecking thingy....
or maybe I aint ready for this yet..Idk?..but thanx anywaiz for the advices....
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Tylanas
replied on January 24th, 2008
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I think you're not ready. You will not be this nervous when you are ready Smile You will WANT it, 100%.
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Jimster010
replied on January 24th, 2008
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Phone sex!
Talking about sex is great, even if two people talk dirty to each other,
at least one of them could get sexually aroused. It's like if you talk about
sex to your boyfriend or girlfriend, one of you would maybe have a sudden
urge to have sex!
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crazyinluvwitchu
replied on January 25th, 2008
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Jimster010 wrote:
Phone sex!
Talking about sex is great, even if two people talk dirty to each other,
at least one of them could get sexually aroused. It's like if you talk about
sex to your boyfriend or girlfriend, one of you would maybe have a sudden
urge to have sex!




so you're saying that *it is a good thing to talk about it?*...
yes
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Tylanas
replied on January 25th, 2008
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Of course.
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Maddie34
replied on January 25th, 2008
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Yes its a good thing. I think it will help you get more comfortable for when you actually start having sex.

It was really important to my boyfriend that I could openly talk about sex. He seemed to think that if I didn't like talking about it then I wasn't fully comfortable doing it yet, and that really bothered him.
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