Pelvic pain during sex (Page 1)

Both of you need to be treated for chlamydia at the same time or you will pass it back and forth between the two of you. You more than likely have it again and it can cause you to hurt (its an infection!) and it can cause itching, etc.

If you go get treated before he does, WHERE CONDOMS!

Where did you get Chlamydia from?

No offense, but how did you get chlamydia if you are in a committed relationship? I would definitely be asking some questions.

im not sure, i could have gotten it at any time, there was a time at one point that we were seperated and i cant say what he did then or whatnot. i keep telling jaon to get tested and hes like i will. so hopefully he does it today cuz he has plenty of time cuz he works only half the day until the company is back.

How did you find out you had that? did you randomly get tested or did you have symptoms? Hope you dont mind me asking

they automatically test for them during the pap smears. And i went in due to problems with my IUD. I was overdue for a pap as well , the only time i ever had one was when i was pregnant.it never crossed my mind to get tested for any STD's nor did i think it through now lol. he still hasnt got tested i tell him everyday but soon they wil call him and make him go in. so its dumb cuz he prob gave it back to me now. but from now on i need to remember to get a pap yearly becuase when i was pregnant with my son i had abnormal cells in my cervix and after he was born i had a colposcopy done etc.

You can get it and have it for a while before you ever show symptoms. But you really need to make sure that he gets treatment because if you continue to catch it from him it can make it harder for you to conceive later on. It can be very damaging to your reproductive organs.

I would definitely get checked by a doc though just in case you have something else going on too.

You are at risk for PID (pelvic inflamatory disease) due to having untreated/reaccuring chlamydia. Your risk may be higher with an IUD inserted. Your health is actually at risk and you need to be treated before you become sterile or your uterus/tubes become scarred.

You can be treated - buy some condoms and make your husband wear them. If he isn't concerned about his own health and yours - he can wear the condoms.

If this is a concern, you can always speak to his C.O. and he'll be sure to get treated.

well see the condoms would be of no use now since its a lil late for that, and if he doesnt get seen they wil notify him to go in and be seen, cuz the guy said he has either 1 or 2 weeks to go in, thats jaosns theory, he has no symptoms therefore he must not have it, but i told him majority of men dont even show symptoms. Hopefully he goes tomorow though. because he doesnt work full days just half days . Ive told him about the complications etc and if he is passing it back to me etc. hes just sooo freakin hard headed, i had to almost beg him in tears to go to the dr when he was having anal bleeding and bad stomach cramps because he didnt think it was serious.

You both need to be treated at the same time!

Have him read this:

http://www.cdc.gov/std/Chlamydia/STDFact-C hlamydia.htm

Now you have it again. Now you need to go get treatment again. And if he isn't treated at the same time, you will get it AGAIN.

And if you make him wear condoms, guess what? HE'LL GO GET TREATED! Because no man likes condoms. If he did, you guys wouldn't be in this situation.

Condoms.

yeah i know, ive showed him al the stuff, i told him it can affect us having kids in the future etc. il prob make him go up there for sick call tomorow afternon if he is home before 1 and go with him. otherwise ill have to call and make an appt for next week.

haha, he knows about that q-tip lmao, the nurse lady that i saw firdst old me it but that was when he wa still in landstul so he could have gotten seen there cuz i told him numerous times. i went up to see him twice while he was up there. tomorow HE will go, cant drag him up there today they closed at 4 and its 4:20 now and hes at the bank.

yeah, i know, he can get over it , i can make him go haha, ill drive his truck.

OMG! I wouldn't even sleep with that jerk anymore! Somebody cheated. . .How can you be so cool and emllow about it? He'd be kicked all the way to china if it was me!

Well hopefully you got him to go in! Best of luck to you!

If he avoids going again, i would go get tested to see if you have it, if you dont than he probably doest, and if you do he does, than you have a more sold reasion to make him go. Maybe for him, knowing that you have it will make him go in??

Guys are really stubern sometimes lol

yeah guys are, im not going crazy because i talked with the community health nurse etc and i could have contracted it anytime over the last yr or so. so its not necessarily a cheating thing ya know....... we done some crazy things lol, all in good fun, he is gonna go on monday i will prob go again as well, since he went up there today and there was only 1 dr and a 3 hr wait for a walk in.