Pain and Body Shakes Before Orgasm Posted: 01-20-08 05:45am
Hello Everyone, and thank you for taking
the time to answer, but back to the matter
at hand.
Me and my girlfriend(myself 19 and
girlfriend 18 ) have been having sex for
about 6 months now. I almost everytime GO
DOWN on her for pleasure, and understand
that to most girls it is what brings with
it an orgasm. Now, my girlfriend says that
she loves the way it feels when i give her
oral, but as soon as her body starts
shaking she dries up and asks for me to
stop, usually resulting in dry or no sex
at all(TY lube).
But from what we have read, a sign of an
orgasm is muscle contractions and shaking.
Is this a mental issue for her(she's not
ready to orgasm, or not comfortable yet?)
or is it another matter that i havent
thought of yet? She has not orgasmed yet,
Ever, and she also tries masturbation, but
still nothing.
Any advice or helpful info is appreciated.
It truly makes me feel bad to know that
one moment im giving my girl great
pleasure and the next she feels, i dont
know, turned off and i dont know how to
explain it.
Thank You.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-20-08 10:56am
Normally my body shakes uncontrollably
WHEN I orgasm. It does sound like a mental
block to me, though it may be connected to
something physical. I really can't give
any good advice.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-21-08 01:13am
I don't really know how to word this
right.....Are things maybe getting to
sensitive down there? Sometimes if hubby
is going down on me, I begin to feel over
stimulated and ask him to lighten up a
little bit or move away from the clit for
a second. I don't know if this makes sense
to anyone else, but its almost like it
feels so good that you can't take anymore.
