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Q: Pain and Body Shakes Before Orgasm

asked by: Iky1337 on January 20th, 2008

New User

Hello Everyone, and thank you for taking the time to answer, but back to the matter at hand.

Me and my girlfriend(myself 19 and girlfriend 18 ) have been having sex for about 6 months now. I almost everytime GO DOWN on her for pleasure, and understand that to most girls it is what brings with it an orgasm. Now, my girlfriend says that she loves the way it feels when i give her oral, but as soon as her body starts shaking she dries up and asks for me to stop, usually resulting in dry or no sex at all(TY lube).

But from what we have read, a sign of an orgasm is muscle contractions and shaking. Is this a mental issue for her(she's not ready to orgasm, or not comfortable yet?) or is it another matter that i havent thought of yet? She has not orgasmed yet, Ever, and she also tries masturbation, but still nothing.

Any advice or helpful info is appreciated. It truly makes me feel bad to know that one moment im giving my girl great pleasure and the next she feels, i dont know, turned off and i dont know how to explain it.

Thank You.

Replies(3)

Tylanas

replied on January 20th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

Normally my body shakes uncontrollably WHEN I orgasm. It does sound like a mental block to me, though it may be connected to something physical. I really can't give any good advice.

lele25

replied on January 21st, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

I don't really know how to word this right.....Are things maybe getting to sensitive down there? Sometimes if hubby is going down on me, I begin to feel over stimulated and ask him to lighten up a little bit or move away from the clit for a second. I don't know if this makes sense to anyone else, but its almost like it feels so good that you can't take anymore.

scrappster

replied on June 29th, 2009

New User

I think I have had the same problem as your girlfriend. It's probably over stimulation. When my boyfriend first went down on me, he'd go crazy, and it would make my legs twitch, and while it felt good, I'd also feel like, a sort of pain or tenseness that wasn't comfortable, and it took away from the pleasure to the point that I just wanted him to stop. He was my first, and I'm really shy, so I didn't want to be honest with him. Now I know different though.

Maybe try easing up, slowing down, lighter, or maybe flatten your tongue, gentle kisses, etc. Really encourage her to tell you what she likes! Explore different areas (not directly on the clit), because it's all senstive and a different area might be more enjoyably stimulating! Sometimes girls think that telling a guy what they want is mean, or like they think the guy doesn't know what he's doing. But all girls are different, and you'll both enjoy it way more if she understands it's ok to tell you what's up! I hope that helped a little, and good luck!

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