go to the doctor, it's probably Anal Fissure, nothing really serious but it has to get cured. Stop with anal sex because if you have this condition once it might come again in future.

That's too bad... I know I wouldn't have waited 4 months!!! It does sound like a rare complication due to anal sex. I don't know how large the risk is of reopening the fissure once it's cured, but here's my advice on anal sex:

Most people don't just "dive in"! If you truly want to have anal sex comfortably and safely, you need to start a gentle stretching program weeks before you go for it. This can be done easiest with a series of anal plugs that slowly get larger in gauge. You start with a little one the size of your finger and wear it for a few hours a day to become comfortable. Because you're slowly and gently stretching the sphincter, you are not causing damage. You finish with a plug that is about as wide as your partner's penis. Once you are comfortable inserting and removing that plug, you are ready for the real thing. Use a lot of lube, and everything should go just fine.

Tell him to keep it out of the poop chute.

Why? There's nothing wrong with anal sex.

Anal fissures, piles, infections, are possible...

My first time with anal sex was done with him stretching me with one finger and then up to two fingers... and lots of lube. There is a cream that desensitizes the anus but I found it really works good and you have to be careful that you aren't aware of whats really going on. I love anal and will always continue with it. I do kegels for that area as well as for the vagina.

Many injuries and infections are possible with vaginal sex as well.

hey does anyone have a suggestion on a "butt plug" lol... sounds funny to me. i was going to get a vibrating one, and thought i'd ask to see what you girls used and if you had a fave! thanks in advance!

I'd just go buy some ordinary ones from a porn shop. Get little ones and medium ones - nothing bigger than your man's penis is needed.

for your response. we've only done it one time... used lots of lube. we've tried it once since then and it wasn't working. i don't think i was as relaxed as i was the first time. so i'd like to stretch it out a bit b4 we do it again. i think from what i've read here, it helps. again, thanks!

Get the butt plugs and each time try to a larger size.....lbrication is the answer...I am speaking form freinds I know.......I poo pencil turds, my ass says EXIT ONLY....no matter how many times I have tried to give it up.....theres just no forcing a tree into a gopher hole......My husband is so understanding...after 14 years....we;ve been together almost 18 we've decided I'd rather be called a TIGHT ASS.................I know, the duke shoot is where you obtain e-coli and other forms of bacteria.........and there are those.....Miss Eiri who is a PRO( cudos girlfriend).....but there are some of us gals, that are just not "gifted" in that area to give up that butt! I get credit, cause I was a trooper and had at least tried to every avail.......Sometimes you could have a 55 gallon drum of lube and it would not be any use to you...................Now for the wiping and blood part, you could ahve torn soemthing inide. If this persist, I would most certainly see you OBGYN and be honest. They will know what to do to treat you. Good thing I can swallow! Did I say that??????????????????????????? Its Firday and I think its time to say Good Night Gracie!