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Q: How do friends react
asked by: Martiny on January 19th, 2008
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Im doing this post cuz im sick and tired of my ( Well cant say friend anyore ) who use to be so friendly and now just ignore me and treat me like nothing. Ok i got a kid, im 19 but is it an excuse to disrespect me like this hmf..

Am I the only one or its normal that they dont care anymore.
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prettygirlygirl
replied on January 19th, 2008
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Totally normal. I don't have any friends any more at all, you're lucky you've still got a few left!

Once you get pregnant and have a kid your priorities and interests change big time. YOu want to talk about milestones, breastfeeding, and babyhood (or swelling, navigating a huge belly, and general discomfort if you're still pregnant), and they really just don't give a caca outside of cooing over the cute baby and moving on with their teenage life stuff.

Not to mention, your friends will still hang out and talk all the time when you're in iwth the baby. They get used to you not being around.

Sorry youre having a crappy time. Sucks eh?

How old is the kid? Any chance you could join a mommy play group or something just to get out and be social?
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Idony
replied on January 19th, 2008
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i never really had friends

but maybe you should just try to find new friends ones that maybe have kids, just a thought, if they want to treat you like dirt you are way better then them you dont need that

~alicia~
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young Girl
replied on January 19th, 2008
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its normal

i was a varsity cheerleader and ran track. every weekend i was out with friends. every day after school i'd go hang outwith someone
football games
practice
parties

now...ive got maybe 10 people i still keep in touch with.
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Verizon-y
replied on January 20th, 2008
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10 people is A LOT, though!
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young Girl
replied on January 20th, 2008
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well i talk to 10 people. but really i only have 2 close friends who i keep in touch with. mikey who is over here alot lol. him and trav are best buddies now. and me and mikey grew up with each other pretty much since diapers.
and then my sister. whom i talk to sometimes

the others are over aim,IM,txt,etc
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Martiny
replied on January 20th, 2008
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Well me i have 2 close friend one who also have a kid, mine is 10 months. And an other girl who is like my sister she was alwayd their. The other ones dont care or talk to my bf and i if they need money.
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Katrinadoodle
replied on January 20th, 2008
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I still have most of my friends. I grew apart from most of them during my pregnancy, but I'm slowly building my relationships back up. I lost a few friends who were very negative about me been a teen mom, but who needs them anyways? Very Happy

Surprisingly, my three best friends actually want to here all about motherhood.... colic, diapers, sleep-deprivation, and all.
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