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Q: pill delaying period or pregnancy ?
asked by: Horsepal on January 19th, 2008
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Hello, i'm 16 and I think im pregant becasue I haven't had my period for like almost 4 months. I was just on birth control and my last period was September 27 or the 29 can't remember the exact day. And now it is januray 19. The only thing is my boyfriend never came in me, and i know that for a fact because he doesn't want me pregant either. I have never had morning sickness, my boobs have gotten a little bigger but that could be because of the weight gain. I get the odd headaches here or there, im alot more moody, and i also had odd food cravings. we are going to go get the test today, my mom already told me if i am pregant that shes sending me to my boyfriends. so i have no help there, if i am pregant i kinda wanna keep it but i know i shouldn't. i looked on the internet and it said such things as you period could be delayed 2 or 3 months if you are just getting off the pill but i don't know what to think. and i am soo scared and i just need someone to tell me if its normal to not have morning sickness and if a could be pregant. is it possible to get pregant of pre-cum? because that is the only was i could be pregant. Thanks.
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Shanyan
replied on January 19th, 2008
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Some women don't experience morning sickness and yes you can get pregnant from precum!! Anytime you have unprotected sex there is a chance that you can get pregnant.......even with the withdrawl method. You should be on the pill and using condoms if you are going to have sex.

Also if you haven't gotten your period since Sept. and it ends up that you are pregnant you would be far enough along.....so an abortion may not be an option. you really should have tested a lot sooner.

If you think you are responsible enough to be having unprotected sex at 16 than you should be responsible enough to deal with the consequences....it isn't your mother's responsibility.
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Idony
replied on January 19th, 2008
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yes you could very well be pregnant, you need to test, why didnt you think to test sooner? 4 monthes is a long time to go without a period, if you werent/arent pregnant you should go to a gynocologist and see why you havent gotten a period you could have something wrong with your body!

it COULD be the pill messing with you but it COULD be your pregnant, you CAN get pregnant using withdrawl i think its something like a 25% fail rate, meaning out of 100 women 25 will get pregnant using that type of "birthcontrol" (i use quotes because its not really birthcontrol)

also you may feel more at home in the teen pregnancy forum, and this post probably would have been better suited there or the am i preg forum (we still have that one right (im too lazy to check lol) people keep posting am i preg threads all over teen preg)

like shanyan said its probably too late for an abortion if you would want to go that route, but its never too late for adoption, adoption is NOT a bad thing, you can even have an open adoption where you get calls and letters and maybe even visits or can go to visit your kid

good luck

~alicia~
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young Girl
replied on January 19th, 2008
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wait
when did you go off birth control? or are you still on it

if you think your pregnant take a test. you can also go to the dr and get a blood test done. also if you are pregnant you have options
1. keep the baby
2. adoption
or 3. abortion
all of these options are available to you and you might be able to get more info on them from a planned parenthood. you can go to the clinic and they will give you a test and also help you figure out what you want to do

good luck
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Proud Mama
replied on January 19th, 2008
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I never experienced morning sickness with my pregnancy. I would test and don't relie on the pull and pray method of birth control it doesn't work. I have a friend who's boyfriend still to this day believes the pull and pray works and this is after two pregnancy. Some women don't experience any pregnancy symptoms at all except the missed period and sometimes still they don't experience that.

If you're not pregnant this time then please please please go back on birth control and stay on it till you're ready to have a baby.

And as the_girlfriend (sorry don't know your name yet Smile ) said there are those three choices but I believe there is another depending on where you're from and that's foster care until you're situated enough to handle a child. I personally find that very unfair for the child though. Growing up only knowing one family and then getting pulled away to be put with a complete stranger.

But if you are pregnant then you can handle it you're just going to have to work harder then you ever have to provide for it.
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Mammoga
replied on January 22nd, 2008
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or rather make home pregnancy test if you are scared to go to the docter.
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