I feel everyones pain (so to speak). I, like many of you have the same problem and have tried all the exercises and techniques, but none worked. I have also tried all kinds of pills, either bought from my local store or over the internet, again to no avail. Not to mention all these "pressure points", still no help. My problem, from what I am reading from everyone else, seems to be a tad more "severe". I havent been able to last more than 10 seconds in quite a few years. Yes, you heard right 10 seconds at best and I am only in my early 30's. I have had this problem since I was a teenager.

I would just like to know if you or anyone else has decided to try this hypnotheropy and if it has worked for everyone. I am at the end of my rope for a cure, please help and advise if possible.

My boyfried, I believe, suffers this same situation. He gets a good erection but after some time, 10-20 seconds, he starts loosing his erection. One thing I found helpful in our relationship is talking about it, I know it is difficult for a man to aknowledge this but it has strenteng our relationship. One thing that he and I have tried is for him to perform for some time and then stop, then play some more and start again. In order words, he tries to avoid ejaculating. It is some kind of diffucult for him to do it but it has help some. Of course it is frustrating for me, but I love him and I think is worth the try.

I'm pretty sure that your partners have noticed this and if you haven't bring it up yet please do so.

One thing i'd like to ask you guys. Even though my boyfriend and I talk about this very frequently, I haven't been able to convence him to go to the doctor for a check up. I have read some article, can't remember the website since I have been doing a lot of research about this topic, that it could be some kind of infection to the penis or something on those terms. How can I help him understand the importance of this without hurting his self stem? You guys with your macho attitude is kind of hard to get through you!!!!!

I myself suffer from the same prob and ive had it from as long as I can remember tried diff things and none seem to work its not an infection or anything and im healthy theres nuffin wrong with me so thats what makes me think its psychological and also when I ejaculate I dont feel nuffin no pleasure no nuffin had that from as long as I can remember too, you could try hypnotics worth a shot, all other things dont seem to work, stop and start etc so could it be psychological ?