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panicballoon
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s_kalb
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panicballoon
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I didn't think you were critical, so don't worry 
1) WHEN my boyfriend does get his license, I'm sure my parents will find something else to complain about.
2) He does not feel comfortable taking his exam because he needs more "practice" driving. It's my gut feeling that he's not trying hard enough to get practice in because he is scared of driving.
3) I feel like he isn't doing enough to help me out emotionally because he doesn't get his license, but the fact that he has put up with so much crap from my parents and is still here with me says something to me.
4) While I trust my boyfriend, I get a nagging feeling in the back of my head that he is cheating on me behind my back or will leave me for someone else if he forgets to call or text or if his phone dies and doesn't charge it for 2 days. He's usually good about it though. I have met his family, extended family, close and new friends and he seems excited when he introduces me as his "girlfriend". I think it's just a case of my past relationships manifesting into this one and putting thoughts in my head.
5) I can't ignore the fact that I'm unhappy.
1) WHEN my boyfriend does get his license, I'm sure my parents will find something else to complain about.
2) He does not feel comfortable taking his exam because he needs more "practice" driving. It's my gut feeling that he's not trying hard enough to get practice in because he is scared of driving.
3) I feel like he isn't doing enough to help me out emotionally because he doesn't get his license, but the fact that he has put up with so much crap from my parents and is still here with me says something to me.
4) While I trust my boyfriend, I get a nagging feeling in the back of my head that he is cheating on me behind my back or will leave me for someone else if he forgets to call or text or if his phone dies and doesn't charge it for 2 days. He's usually good about it though. I have met his family, extended family, close and new friends and he seems excited when he introduces me as his "girlfriend". I think it's just a case of my past relationships manifesting into this one and putting thoughts in my head.
5) I can't ignore the fact that I'm unhappy.
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s_kalb
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I'm completely wasted right now, it's 1 am here 
Ii'll probably send something tomorrox morning, but in the meanwhile i'll say in short that it looks like he uses his phobia as an excuse to not do it... about your parents: maybe a written letter could help them understand that you feel it's unfair how they put pressure on you about someone who actually doesn't have anny affect on their lives. SO WHAT if you want to "waste your time" (in their eyes) with him, it's not their business and doesn't affect anything in their lives !!
now THIS TIME I didn't help at all, that's whaat I'm sure off.
gtg, I'm really tired and I'll prolly laugh tomorrow at what the unstructured mess I wrote here, cya and good night, no of course not it's full day in your country!
ZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz.....
Ii'll probably send something tomorrox morning, but in the meanwhile i'll say in short that it looks like he uses his phobia as an excuse to not do it... about your parents: maybe a written letter could help them understand that you feel it's unfair how they put pressure on you about someone who actually doesn't have anny affect on their lives. SO WHAT if you want to "waste your time" (in their eyes) with him, it's not their business and doesn't affect anything in their lives !!
now THIS TIME I didn't help at all, that's whaat I'm sure off.
gtg, I'm really tired and I'll prolly laugh tomorrow at what the unstructured mess I wrote here, cya and good night, no of course not it's full day in your country!
ZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz.....
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Maddie34
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Oh s_kalb.. drunk ehealthing? Bahaha! You are a silly boy. By the way, drink lots of watter tomorrow! (health forum and all) 
Panicballoon, so all he says is he's not doing anthing about it? He's not practicing with you or anything? You're going through all this and nothing? The guy I've been with was kind of like this with a job. I got a lot of junk from my parents because he didn't work everyday, finally I talked him into getting one though. I told him the problems it was causing for me and that I really just need to know he's trying for me. He got a job a few days later.
Talk it over with him again. Don't tell him that just your parents want him to get a license but YOU need him to get it too. Practice with him too, maybe set up a surprise for him after you do practice (a little extra incentive I suppose).
Panicballoon, so all he says is he's not doing anthing about it? He's not practicing with you or anything? You're going through all this and nothing? The guy I've been with was kind of like this with a job. I got a lot of junk from my parents because he didn't work everyday, finally I talked him into getting one though. I told him the problems it was causing for me and that I really just need to know he's trying for me. He got a job a few days later.
Talk it over with him again. Don't tell him that just your parents want him to get a license but YOU need him to get it too. Practice with him too, maybe set up a surprise for him after you do practice (a little extra incentive I suppose).
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panicballoon
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Maddie34
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panicballoon
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Maddie34
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Sadie22
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Sadie22
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Maddie34
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Galaxy
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Fairy Godmother
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panicballoon
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crazyinluvwitchu
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Fairy Godmother
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Galaxy
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Maddie34
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