Alright, so here it is: If your girlfriend
was a virgin and you've been her first,
please stop asking her if she wants
something new!!! She doesn't KNOW. At
least, I didn't!! I had NO idea. I always
had to answer that everything my ex was
doing was great - and it was. But I didn't
know what to ask for.
If you're bedding a virgin, you're going
to have to do a lot of work to get her out
of her shell and you are going to have to
be the teacher. You're going to have to be
kind. You'll have to go slow. You'll have
to be gentle. Always try as many things as
you know, because she's probably not even
going to know how to ask or what to ask
for. Just because she says "I don't know
what else to do" doesn't mean "I don't
want to do new things", it means "I
literally have no clue what to do here!"
So guys, help your virgins :3
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 663 Location: , Norn Iron
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Posted: 01-18-08 04:54am
good advice there!
it took me to get into my second sexual
relationship before i tried anything
except the missionary position.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 01-18-08 16:24pm
How about when the guys are the virgins
lol! Let the girl take the lead!! She'll
love it.
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Lewis_Spurs
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Aldershot, England
Posted: 01-20-08 15:46pm
good advice for guys this. Ive only been
with my current girlfriend, and we were
both virgins so we've learnt it all
together (for about a year or more now)
and now we know what each of us like and
dont like. We both try new things every
now and again but what was said here was
very true. Took a long time before there
was any variation, confidence plays a big
part, especially for the girls
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 01-20-08 20:14pm
well said eiri!!!!
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crazyinluvwitchu
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jan 2008 Posts: 78 Location: SACRAMENTO, CALiFORNiA
Posted: 01-20-08 22:19pm
I SO AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
