Alright, so here it is: If your girlfriend was a virgin and you've been her first, please stop asking her if she wants something new!!! She doesn't KNOW. At least, I didn't!! I had NO idea. I always had to answer that everything my ex was doing was great - and it was. But I didn't know what to ask for.

If you're bedding a virgin, you're going to have to do a lot of work to get her out of her shell and you are going to have to be the teacher. You're going to have to be kind. You'll have to go slow. You'll have to be gentle. Always try as many things as you know, because she's probably not even going to know how to ask or what to ask for. Just because she says "I don't know what else to do" doesn't mean "I don't want to do new things", it means "I literally have no clue what to do here!"

So guys, help your virgins :3