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Q: The Pullout Method
asked by: Largo163 on January 17th, 2008
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Recently me and my girlfriend(we have been in a relationship for a year and a half) had sex for the first time.we were both virgins. after a little bit i pulled out before ejaculating...like a loooong time so as that nothing would happen and then ejaculated elsewhere(nowhere near her vaginal opening) and i was wondering is there any risks of her getting pregnant if so what are they and how high or slim is the chance??because we were very precautious but we are both worried!please no judgement or anything just advice ^.^ Thanks!!
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Mabel
replied on January 17th, 2008
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The Pullout Method is not BIRTH CONTROL. You should use condoms and / or birth control pills for birth control.

No judgement. Just take care of yourselves!
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gingerelizabeth
replied on January 17th, 2008
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if your concerned about pregnancy you definaltely need to use condoms.
theres a much higher chance of pregnancy when you pull out.
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gingerelizabeth
replied on January 17th, 2008
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if your concerned about pregnancy you definaltely need to use condoms.
theres a much higher chance of pregnancy when you pull out.
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Roberta777
replied on January 17th, 2008
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Please Tell Me When Your Penis
can decide, not your mind that you are going to stop having great sex and WOAH! You can stop and pull out!!!!!!!!!

The reality is what these ladies are telling you. You have probably already gone to the point of no return having sex with your lady.

Please check out Kia, the Sticky Post, she will give you all you need to know about how all this comes about. You can find it on Men's Sexual Health, Women's Sexual Health, Pregnancy Health. She is there to teach you what should be available for every person in school in sex education from grade 5 on up.

Good luck.
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lonestarguy
replied on January 17th, 2008
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There is no more important lesson for you this day than to quit having sex without using birth control. The pullout method is so unreliable that it's not even considered BC.

Roberta's suggestion to read up on all aspects of sex ed in this area is an excellent one. Please stop right now pulling out or you are bound to become a father soon.
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yellow ribbon
replied on January 17th, 2008
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Hi living proof it doesnt work for a method. There area plenty of numbers we could throw out about the *chances* but it wont matter. every situation is different and the most important thing is its not a reliable method
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young Girl
replied on January 17th, 2008
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like the others said
pull out method is retarded and stupid and doesnt work
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lele25
replied on January 17th, 2008
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What do you want a percentage? Ok well y'all are 100% irresponsible for engaging in such risky behavior! Whether or not there is a "high" or "slim" chance, is irrelevent...there's a chance and that should be enough reason to use protection. But hey...no judgement!
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lisanik
replied on January 25th, 2008
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Pulling out
My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years. We have 2 boys 4 and 5. Only the 5 year old was planned. I was on birth control when I got pregnant w my youngest son. After I had him I didnt get back on birth control. We started using the pull out method. It worked for 3 and half years, then I ended up pregnant and having a miscarriage. So I would suggest to you, if you are not wanting to become a father in the near future to wrap it up, because it will happen. Maybe not anytime soon but it will.
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lissaboo
replied on February 13th, 2008
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I haven't used birth control a day in my life,and only used condoms for about a weeks worth of sex.I've only been with one person and that happens to be the guy I'm marrying next year.I've been with him non stop for about 3 years now and we've been 'pulling out' for most of it.I have never gotten pregnant but I consider myself lucky and also, if I happened to get pregnant we'd be the happiest people on earth.It's more like..we feel when it's the right time..it's the right time and it will happen.But if you don't want that to happen, if you don't want your lady to get pregnant then definitely use a condom and birth control preferably.Having children is nothing to mess around with and if you don't think you're ready then please please be careful or be abstinent.
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robinwoods
replied on February 29th, 2008
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you want to know .. read this
http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic81865. html
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