Recently me and my girlfriend(we have been
in a relationship for a year and a half)
had sex for the first time.we were both
virgins. after a little bit i pulled out
before ejaculating...like a loooong time
so as that nothing would happen and then
ejaculated elsewhere(nowhere near her
vaginal opening) and i was wondering is
there any risks of her getting pregnant if
so what are they and how high or slim is
the chance??because we were very
precautious but we are both worried!please
no judgement or anything just advice ^.^
Thanks!!
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-17-08 19:31pm
The Pullout Method is not BIRTH CONTROL.
You should use condoms and / or birth
control pills for birth control.
No judgement. Just take care of
yourselves!
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gingerelizabeth
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:09pm
if your concerned about pregnancy you
definaltely need to use condoms.
theres a much higher chance of pregnancy
when you pull out.
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gingerelizabeth
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:10pm
if your concerned about pregnancy you
definaltely need to use condoms.
theres a much higher chance of pregnancy
when you pull out.
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Roberta777
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Please Tell Me When Your Penis Posted: 01-17-08 20:29pm
can decide, not your mind that you are
going to stop having great sex and WOAH!
You can stop and pull out!!!!!!!!!
The reality is what these ladies are
telling you. You have probably already
gone to the point of no return having sex
with your lady.
Please check out Kia, the Sticky Post, she
will give you all you need to know about
how all this comes about. You can find it
on Men's Sexual Health, Women's Sexual
Health, Pregnancy Health. She is there to
teach you what should be available for
every person in school in sex education
from grade 5 on up.
Good luck.
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lonestarguy
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:41pm
There is no more important lesson for you
this day than to quit having sex without
using birth control. The pullout method is
so unreliable that it's not even
considered BC.
Roberta's suggestion to read up on all
aspects of sex ed in this area is an
excellent one. Please stop right now
pulling out or you are bound to become a
father soon.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 01-17-08 23:04pm
Hi living proof it doesnt work for a
method. There area plenty of numbers we
could throw out about the *chances* but it
wont matter. every situation is different
and the most important thing is its not a
reliable method
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-17-08 23:05pm
like the others said
pull out method is retarded and stupid and
doesnt work
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lele25
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Posted: 01-17-08 23:17pm
What do you want a percentage? Ok well
y'all are 100% irresponsible for engaging
in such risky behavior! Whether or not
there is a "high" or "slim" chance, is
irrelevent...there's a chance and that
should be enough reason to use protection.
But hey...no judgement!
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lisanik
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Pulling out Posted: 01-25-08 05:02am
My husband and I have been married for
almost 7 years. We have 2 boys 4 and 5.
Only the 5 year old was planned. I was on
birth control when I got pregnant w my
youngest son. After I had him I didnt get
back on birth control. We started using
the pull out method. It worked for 3 and
half years, then I ended up pregnant and
having a miscarriage. So I would suggest
to you, if you are not wanting to become a
father in the near future to wrap it up,
because it will happen. Maybe not anytime
soon but it will.
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lissaboo
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Posted: 02-13-08 10:40am
I haven't used birth control a day in my
life,and only used condoms for about a
weeks worth of sex.I've only been with one
person and that happens to be the guy I'm
marrying next year.I've been with him non
stop for about 3 years now and we've been
'pulling out' for most of it.I have never
gotten pregnant but I consider myself
lucky and also, if I happened to get
pregnant we'd be the happiest people on
earth.It's more like..we feel when it's
the right time..it's the right time and it
will happen.But if you don't want that to
happen, if you don't want your lady to get
pregnant then definitely use a condom and
birth control preferably.Having children
is nothing to mess around with and if you
don't think you're ready then please
please be careful or be abstinent.
