I hate to sound cynical or insensitive, but you cannot expect much more from most teenage boys. Is he around your age?

You chose to have a baby at your age. You should realize that it's going to be no cup of tea trying to raise it, especially with someone who is very uninvolved. He isn't here for you now, most likely he's not going to be in the future. Guys who suddenly come to their senses and grow into men when they see their beautiful baby only exist in Hollywood. Think long and hard about what you have decided to do.

I was just wondering if you had considered adoption for your baby? It's seems like you have things pretty rough in the first place...add to that the fact that you'll more than likely be raising the child alone. Are you sure that's the life you want for your child? I'm not trying to be rude or anything I am just curious and concerned.

Me too. I know a lot of girls say "adoption isn't for me" but if you seriously step back and put aside how you feel and consider it....it should be about what's for your baby. It's a hard decision, but you really should think about it.

Also just wondering....how do you intend on caring for this baby? Do you have a job? Do you have insurance? Dose your boyfriend (if he sticks around) have job that can support you, him, and a child? Once again, not trying to be rude, but it worries me that this child might not be given all that he needs and deserves.

your boyfriend came on here
and started adding girls like hes some kind of player
he doesnt return your msgs and hes constantly msging me asking "whatsup me nuthin just chillen"

i think you may want to consider adoption. because youre in foster care and cant get out of it

hes a jerk sam
you should leave him

Dude, if you did anything similar to what The_Girlfreind and YOUR girlfriend codys_girl1990 has mentioned then you are not a "good one". I think your girlfriend should become your EX girlfriend and give the child up for adoption so that it can have the life it deserves, instead of being raised by a person like you. That's almost cruel and unusual punishment.

I think his name needs to be edited out of her post. Imagine googling your name and having this information linked to it.
I'm not making a judgement whether the situation is right or wrong. I'm just saying, that may be why 'he' showed up here.

Going by their profiles, neither one of them needs to be a parents. Between the two of them it seems all they do is "hang out with peeps, beat people up, and watch pothead movies". Nice role models....Jeeze my heart goes out to this poor baby on the way. If these two had even one kind bone in their bodies, they'd do the right thing and put the child for adoption and give it a chance at a better life.

This girl is in foster care. She has already had a difficult life.

shes in foster care. so will they automatically take her baby until shes out of foster care? i dont know how that stuff works i was just wondering.

i agree i think foster is the best situation for that baby. maybe open adoption would be best. that way she can still see him and be apart of his life and one day when she gets everything set and together then she can try and get custody of him.

That isn't the way open adoption works, Suzy.

My point was, this girl is IN FOSTER CARE herself. Doesn't anyone wonder why? Her home life can't be that great if she is in the foster care system. Her life has been difficult up until now. She needs support - and she sure doesn't seem to be getting it from her boyfriend.

I hope she gets some counseling and some help with what she should do in her future.

Rightomundo. ^

And, she needs to give the child up so he has a chance at what she apparently didn't get.

Hey, look, Eiri and I agree again!

I agree too. Someone needs to intervene here...

Heheh XD Birch and I agree on a lot of things, we really do. We've just got a few major differences.