codys_girl1990
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i feel he don't love me or our child anymore
Posted: 01-17-08 14:57pm
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i am 17 and 7 months pregnant my name is
samantha maricle i am engaged to cody
warfle and ever since i was put into
foster care is seems like he don't care
about me or the new baby one the way. but
he says he does but it is hard to believe
that when he dont return my emails i get
out and may hopefully we are still
together then i am scared i am gonna have
to raise my son(soon to come) by myself.
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:02pm
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I hate to sound cynical or insensitive,
but you cannot expect much more from most
teenage boys. Is he around your age?
You chose to have a baby at your age. You
should realize that it's going to be no
cup of tea trying to raise it, especially
with someone who is very uninvolved. He
isn't here for you now, most likely he's
not going to be in the future. Guys who
suddenly come to their senses and grow
into men when they see their beautiful
baby only exist in Hollywood. Think long
and hard about what you have decided to
do.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:30pm
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I was just wondering if you had considered
adoption for your baby? It's seems like
you have things pretty rough in the first
place...add to that the fact that you'll
more than likely be raising the child
alone. Are you sure that's the life you
want for your child? I'm not trying to be
rude or anything I am just curious and
concerned.
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-17-08 20:32pm
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| lele25
wrote: | | I was just wondering if you
had considered adoption for your baby?
It's seems like you have things pretty
rough in the first place...add to that the
fact that you'll more than likely be
raising the child alone. Are you sure
that's the life you want for your child?
I'm not trying to be rude or anything I am
just curious and
concerned. |
Me too. I know a lot of girls say
"adoption isn't for me" but if you
seriously step back and put aside how you
feel and consider it....it should be about
what's for your baby. It's a hard
decision, but you really should think
about it.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-17-08 22:02pm
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Also just wondering....how do you intend
on caring for this baby? Do you have a
job? Do you have insurance? Dose your
boyfriend (if he sticks around) have job
that can support you, him, and a child?
Once again, not trying to be rude, but it
worries me that this child might not be
given all that he needs and deserves.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-17-08 22:04pm
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your boyfriend came on here
and started adding girls like hes some
kind of player
he doesnt return your msgs and hes
constantly msging me asking "whatsup me
nuthin just chillen"
i think you may want to consider adoption.
because youre in foster care and cant get
out of it
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-22-08 13:26pm
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hes a jerk sam
you should leave him 
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-22-08 14:56pm
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Dude, if you did anything similar to what
The_Girlfreind and YOUR girlfriend
codys_girl1990 has mentioned then you are
not a "good one". I think your girlfriend
should become your EX girlfriend and give
the child up for adoption so that it can
have the life it deserves, instead of
being raised by a person like you. That's
almost cruel and unusual punishment.
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:03pm
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I think his name needs to be edited out of
her post. Imagine googling your name and
having this information linked to it.
I'm not making a judgement whether the
situation is right or wrong. I'm just
saying, that may be why 'he' showed up
here.
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lele25
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:12pm
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Going by their profiles, neither one of
them needs to be a parents. Between the
two of them it seems all they do is "hang
out with peeps, beat people up, and watch
pothead movies". Nice role models....Jeeze
my heart goes out to this poor baby on the
way. If these two had even one kind bone
in their bodies, they'd do the right thing
and put the child for adoption and give it
a chance at a better life.
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:17pm
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This girl is in foster care. She has
already had a difficult life.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:18pm
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shes in foster care. so will they
automatically take her baby until shes out
of foster care? i dont know how that stuff
works i was just wondering.
i agree i think foster is the best
situation for that baby. maybe open
adoption would be best. that way she can
still see him and be apart of his life and
one day when she gets everything set and
together then she can try and get custody
of him.
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Ingi
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Posted: 01-22-08 15:25pm
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | shes in foster care. so will
they automatically take her baby until
shes out of foster care? i dont know how
that stuff works i was just wondering.
i agree i think foster is the best
situation for that baby. maybe open
adoption would be best. that way she can
still see him and be apart of his life and
one day when she gets everything set and
together then she can try and get custody
of him. |
That isn't the way open adoption works,
Suzy.
My point was, this girl is IN FOSTER CARE
herself. Doesn't anyone wonder why? Her
home life can't be that great if she is in
the foster care system. Her life has been
difficult up until now. She needs support
- and she sure doesn't seem to be getting
it from her boyfriend.
I hope she gets some counseling and some
help with what she should do in her
future.
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Birch
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Posted: 01-22-08 16:28pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | shes in foster care. so will
they automatically take her baby until
shes out of foster care? i dont know how
that stuff works i was just wondering.
i agree i think foster is the best
situation for that baby. maybe open
adoption would be best. that way she can
still see him and be apart of his life and
one day when she gets everything set and
together then she can try and get custody
of him. |
That isn't the way open adoption works,
Suzy.
My point was, this girl is IN FOSTER CARE
herself. Doesn't anyone wonder why? Her
home life can't be that great if she is in
the foster care system. Her life has been
difficult up until now. She needs support
- and she sure doesn't seem to be getting
it from her boyfriend.
I hope she gets some counseling and some
help with what she should do in her
future. |
Rightomundo. ^
And, she needs to give the child up so he
has a chance at what she apparently didn't
get.
Hey, look, Eiri and I agree again! 
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 01-22-08 22:22pm
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| Birch
wrote: | | Ingi
wrote: | | the_girlfriend
wrote: | shes in foster care. so will
they automatically take her baby until
shes out of foster care? i dont know how
that stuff works i was just wondering.
i agree i think foster is the best
situation for that baby. maybe open
adoption would be best. that way she can
still see him and be apart of his life and
one day when she gets everything set and
together then she can try and get custody
of him. |
That isn't the way open adoption works,
Suzy.
My point was, this girl is IN FOSTER CARE
herself. Doesn't anyone wonder why? Her
home life can't be that great if she is in
the foster care system. Her life has been
difficult up until now. She needs support
- and she sure doesn't seem to be getting
it from her boyfriend.
I hope she gets some counseling and some
help with what she should do in her
future. |
Rightomundo. ^
And, she needs to give the child up so he
has a chance at what she apparently didn't
get.
Hey, look, Eiri and I agree again! |
I agree too. Someone needs to intervene
here...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 01-23-08 12:45pm
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Heheh XD Birch and I agree on a lot of
things, we really do. We've just got a few
major differences.
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