That is really well done.
There are not enough trained professionals out there to conduct the intensive behavior therapy that is extremely needed for individuals with Autism. Some cities, however, do offer special schools/centers for children dx before the age of three. My son got into one immediately after dx but I had to work full time and couldn't stomach him getting on an actual school bus everyday from daycare and going to the place. We tried it a few times. I was right there to see him get off the bus at the school and I have never seen a child so lost in my life. It was such a horrible feeling. He was on the bus for one hour going to the school and one hour going back to daycare. That is for 2 1/2 hours of therapy. It still wasn't the one on one IBI (intensive Behavior Intervention) that is needed for most of these youngsters, but better than nothing.
There are options out there but some places have more options than others. I lived in Columbus Oh at the time. That placement was state run(very well run apart from the whole bus situation) and anyone could go there, regardless of income. My son was considered more severe at the time so he got in. My little baby has come such a long way!
If you are dx after 3 years old, then you can get preschool services (1/2 day) at the local school districts - if you qualify. Some preschool teachers are more trained than others. It still isn't as good as the intensive behavior support where those individuals are trained specifically to work with kids with Autism. In Idaho, some kids with Autism can get the one on one IBI in the classroom. I just got a child IBI and the worker will be starting in a few days! Very excited! Students get it for free as the school district is paying the organization. Idaho is WONDERFUL when it comes to getting kids what they need in the school setting regardless of how much money it will cost them! My job is so much easier here:)
I didn't mention that my insurance wouldn't pay for IBI services either.They paid for speech therapy BUT we just received a bill from Columbus Childrens Hospital requesting some of that $$ back. Two years later, the insurance co (UHC) took back the $ from the hospital. Don't ask. I am ready to find a lawyer.