Tell your command that he said he knows the where-abouts of osama or something. Lol. Or send him my way. I will beat the living caca out of him. He'll be damn sorry. All I can say is i'm sorry he's such an ass and I suggest you get away from there a.S.A.P. It isn't safe for you or your baby.

I so wish I could get out of here... Well all.. Im cramping worse.. I kinda spotted a litle too.. I think it may just be from the kick though.... But im gonna go get seen.. Well I dont know when im gonna be back on.. Were going out on patrol again.. Things arnt all happy days here... So itll be a looooooooong day.....But thanks for the support.. Maybe he will get his.. I know he will one day....... Time to put on all this crap and walk to muster up... God... I hate this job...

Not to belittle ur experience or anything and I have the utmost respect for those fighting for the greater good of a nation.

But I once dated an american navy officer, and I didnt think that u were allowed to fraternise with other members on ur brigade or ship or wot ever u call it. They obviously dont know ur pregnant because it is also policy not to send female combatants into active duty whilst pregnant, even tho u got pregnant over there they are not allowed to send u out on any missions or anything.

And I think this guy needs his ass kicked if he hit u, hes nothing but a coward and doesnt deserve the praise and heartfelt thankfulness of a nation that should be proud of its troups, he is no better than those he is fighting against.

I would go to a higher level of command, the treatment ur receiving is wrong.

From someone who cant wait to have a jellybean all of their own

I can't believe the sleazeball dared, after knowing you are pregnant, no less! I agree with going up higher in the chain-of-command, if nothing else, they impress that on every sailor (you said you were navy, right??). Also, get checked out quickly, if nothing else, for your own peace of mind. Maybe a medical person will help you get taken off patrol duty. Focusing on the future and the baby may help to ignore attacks your co-workers are giving; bet they are jealous!
As someone who was in the navy (enlisted), I remember the fear of becoming pregnant while in, and how it would affect me, how it would be, to be away from baby. Even though I was married. I was even more terrified when I returned to civilian life, no more safety net of the military. (of course that's when I first got pregnant!) I sense maybe that you might be scared of facing this with a baby, having to find and keep a job when the military is so "secure". We were extremely poor when this happened to me, but we still survived. Somehow.
If nothing else works, what about the chaplain?
I cannot fully understand the situation you're in, but I really do feel for you, and I will pray for you. I don't know much about mormons, even though a lot of my relatives are, but i've never known one to turn down prayer!

I hope all is and will be okay for u,
mr

Definately go higher up!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am begging you!!!They say there is a zero tolerance for sexual harassment in the military, so prove it!!!!!!!!Threaten a law suit!!!!!!!They will listen.
If nothing else kick his ass when he is not expecting it!!!!!!!!!How dare he threaten you. You are not a prostitute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You made a mistake, it sucks, but big whoopditee doo. It happens to all of us. Don't let him get the best of you because that is what he wants!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First and foremost protect yourself. You know what kind of guy you're dealing with. Try to stay away from altercations. Go to his superior and explain the situation. If you are too intimidated please try to speak with somebody who can mediate for you. The best time is right now to do something about it.

It sounds totally messed up if your command didn't take you seriously. The one place you should be able to go right now is to your command enlisted advisor, and your chaplin. Your cea's job is to help you. It already sounds like you tried to solve your situation at the lowest level possible (the father), and that didn't sound like it went to well. But for your command to not do anything about him hitting you is totally wrong! Just follow what your chaplin, and cea have to tell you. Just because you got pregnant while stationed there doesn't mean you lost your rights.
There is no reason for anyone to hit you. Good luck with everything.

Update.. Sorry it has been helll.. Here.. Patrols are crazy.. Yes I am navy.. I am a seabee.. Yes there are female seabee's.. Im an engineering aide.. I draw plans.. He went to non judicial punishment saturday and is being flown home soon to face more charges.. Come to find out he is married.. There reccomending a courts martial.. And as for me.. Lets just say im going home soon.. Probably about two more weeks..... Thank you all..

Good for you! Congrats! Keep us updated!

Did you have the baby checked? You need to see a doc if you didn't. Once again, you are not a bad women, you are a perfectly normal one! This guy is just not nice, and to top it off...He's married. This guy needs to get a life. Make sure to keep up on him, cuz you have to get him for child support.

~jennifer~

I am glad things are changing for you, I prayed. He's facing justice, and you'll be getting a change of scenery. Maybe you'll get more support where you'll be. I do feel bad for his wife, tho.
I hope you feel more positive about your baby too now that things are not as stressful (?).
May god bless you and his lil gift to you too!
Happy mom's day, mommy!
M r

Hi all.. Well im back safe in virginia.. Just got in today... Im getting my own little place.. A one bed room.... Just wanted to say thanks.. He is getting his justice... A courts martial.. And you know what the worst of all this is.. Im getting a belly... Yuck!!!!!

I'm happy to hear that you are back! And don't be upset about getting a belly, it's absolutely adorable, and you have lil one in there. Do you know if you are going to keep it?

Good luck,

~jennifer~

Don't ever say "yuck" to getting a belly because you are pregnant. Concentrate on eating right, getting your check ups and praying that the baby is healthy when he or she is born. It is a blessing to have a baby, never a burdon, and if it ever becomes one, please consider adoption.

I'm one of the unfortunate ones who could not get pregnant, even tho my husband and I tried everything possible for 7 years. I would have given my right arm to have a "belly".

I wish you much luck!

Hawn

Hawn,

where are you from?

~jennifer~

Jennifer - i'm in new york. (not nyc)
why do you ask?

Hawn